I saw an article writing about a man who mentioned about sex going downhill after his wife has given birth naturally .He has only 1 child.He claimed she was not 'tight' as before. He claimed that caesarean is a safe and recommendable birth option.
I need to ask all the fathers out there.Is that true that sex feels less enjoyable after natural birth? Did you feel the difference in sex after your wive
s births?Would you prefer women to opt for caesarean to 'preserve' the original tightness of the vagina for optimal sexual satisfaction?
2007-10-31 14:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by Lily B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, there isn't any
2007-10-31 14:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Muzikman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife had 2 natural childbirths and was just as tight afterwords. No difference at all in tightness. I think she did do exercises, because she loves sex as much as I do. The changes were that while having sex, we had one ear open for baby crying. 2AM feedings left us tired. As kids get older, they will interrupt you at critical moments. All that goes away after the kids move out. Then you can have uninhibited fun again. Good luck. BTW, we are in mid 60s now. Muscles ache, joints hurt and crack. Sex is not as often as when younger, but when we do, she is still as tight as before births. My wife was an OB nurse for 40 yrs and would tell you to not ever have a C section if not medically necessary.
2007-10-31 15:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time I have sex its different but after first born, 2nd born third born seems to all roled into one big orgy no seriously if tightness is the only critera then do pelvic floor muscle exercises had sex after and before them its more tight after, but tightness is not the only thing I look for.
2007-10-31 14:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by bilbobagsend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lily B~
speaking as a father, C-sections &
Natural birth have nothing to do with
optimal sexual satisfaction.
What's the REAL bottom line?
General Sexuality profoundly CHANGED~
after my wife birthed my daughter.
Most women will NOT make love as
frequently~ post birthing! They use sex
as an instrument of controlling their man!
Everything changes sexually after birth.
(& it has nothing to do with natural birth
or C/sections, & tightness!)
A word of warning?
NEVER EVER agree to a C/section~
UNLESS the baby is breach or there
are other medical complications to warrant
a C/section.
2007-10-31 15:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by LedHead 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
The females vagina was designed primarily as a birth canal. Not for a shallow mans "sexual satisfaction". So to suggest she voluntarily put herself at risk by having a SURGERY is absurd!
2007-10-31 15:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
NO it is not...his wife should have continue or start her KEGEL exercises...and don't let her vagina get out of whack.......I never had a problem w/ my wives!!
2007-10-31 14:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by trop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it wasn't too good after my wife's first baby. But after an hour or two it got better..........
2007-10-31 14:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋