Does this sound dangerous to you?
I am losing hope. I've become completely depressed. I don't know what to do anymore.We were only together 4 mo
Should he and I get back together? He said that he is not violent.That he would never hit me.?
Where did I go wrong?
Oh No!!!! He is dating someone else!!He told me that I am the reason he acted this way! Will he treat her nice
Abuse? What did I do wrong.I'm depressed again?
Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!
13 hours ago - 1 week left to answer.
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He said that he has never behaved that way before.Then said he would get frustated when I would drink.I told him that he acted that way even when I wasnt drinking.
2007-10-31 12:25:58 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing by leaving him, and under no circumstances should you even consider getting back with him. You should also carefully examine your men in the future, how you choose them and how they choose you. Women that get involved with abusive men have a pattern of choosing men with the same characteristics over and over again. Be careful who you fall for. Still, you did the right thing this time before it got really bad.
2007-10-31 12:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if i was u i would not put up with someone disrespecting me like that or anyone 4 that matter i think u should move on and get on with ur life and b strong plus its seems u ave got a low self of steam and dont feel down i know its hard but show them what your made off and what they r missin out on.
2007-10-31 19:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know exactly what your question is, but I can tell you -- you are one MESSED UP GIRL.
You need to develop a sense of self worth. No way -- NO WAY -- should you ever, ever let a man, or anyone, treat you that way. And you think you LOVE him? He's a PIG.
You need professional help and I really hope you get it -- because otherwise, I see a very sad, desperate life for you.
Good luck.
2007-10-31 19:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by luvrats 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound happy,life's to short it's time to leave him and don't look back.This relationship is not good for either of you from what you have said..
2007-10-31 19:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
de ja vu ---- why do I keep seeing this and what's it about??????
2007-10-31 19:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋