My friend found out that her husband is receiving emails from a girl he met, she knows the girl's from another country, cause he is in the air force and so is she (my friend), but the fact is that she says they had even shared pictures. She had confronted him and he says they're only friends, and that is her emailing him. But she have her doubts. What can she do? She's right here with me and asked me to make the question. any advice!!
2007-10-31 12:51:03 · 13 answers · asked by LA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends on the relationship between your friend and her husband. if it's really harmless, he would care less if she read the emails (nothing to hide). If he keeps it private, then it would be time to be suspicious.
2007-10-31 13:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by John R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hubby has no issues with wifey reading and reviewing all correspondence, no problem. But my husband is not allowed to have a computer girlfriend...These things may start out innocent, but there is an attraction there of some sort or they wouldn't have remained in contact. Installing a key logger on the computer might get you a copy of their emails, but if you start snooping, be prepared to find stuff you didn't want to know. Hubby was so wrong in dismissing wifey's feelings...He should never choose another woman over his wife in any situation! Best wishes!
2007-11-01 10:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by Really now 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should find out his password and keep tabs on their emails. She should also ask him how she's (that girl) is doing like once a month.. but in a way that just seems like she's interested in his friends and how they are... ask about other people too... It just lets him know that she hasn't forgotten about that girl.. (and DON't let him be evasive or general... plus once she hacks his email password, she'll know whether he's crossing the line or not)
2007-10-31 20:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by tgrx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may just be a friend so I wouldn't make a big deal of it unless the pictures get a little racy. she can ask this husband to send pictures of the two of them together and perhaps even write to this woman herself if she and the husband are only friends. If he objects to that, then that is the time to be worried.
2007-10-31 20:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has her husband lied before? if no then why is she so paranoid about this? if he had lied about pretty big things (not, oh your not fat in that dress when you look like a hippo) then there is nothing to worry about, if he has then id say ask to read the emails if he shows them thats good if not then use a keylogger to gain the password and read the emails yourself.
2007-10-31 19:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by djmixah7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should cool down but if she notices any weird baheavior she should totally see whats happenning. But not like keep poking at him or she'll seem lke the jealous type. That will only make things worse. Just think before you leap.
2007-10-31 19:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by slob_15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this other girl far away? If so, I won't worry about it.. but I would tell the husband that his actions are super shady and to quit flirting or contacting this girl if its more just friends!!
2007-10-31 19:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by PaiGowAddict 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Plain and simple YOUR HUSBAND AND THE OTHER GIRL CANNOT REMAIN JUST FRIENDS....Hello are you there?
she is sneaking through your back door and if you don't stop her, she IS gonna steal your husband right out your house, if you don't believe me, keep sitting there waiting for advice, trust your own instincts
2007-10-31 20:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by yp_marie_poughkeepsie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him. You love him enough to be married to him, so trust him and respect that he loves you too. If you are a good wife he won't need anyone else because you will satisfy his every need. We all need friends and if he's not acting weird about it then trust him.
2007-10-31 19:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it just emails then don't do anything about them cos we all need different people to talk 2
2007-10-31 20:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by suzywong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋