They've been divorced since I was 3. It has never bothered me before. Now I'm 15 and I can't take it anymore. It's like they hate each other. I've never been told how to cope with it because I was raised this way. So now I'm totally lost. Please help me.
2007-10-31 12:50:02 · 3 answers · asked by enigma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You just have to remember that it happened when you were too young to make a difference for them and that sometimes people who are married do end up hating each other when they get divorced but that shouldn't stop you from loving them both.
You can perhaps talk to them separately and try to understand why they divorced but you have to make it clear to both of them that they can't put you in the middle of their fights, which may be the reason you ask this question. If one of them starts to talk bad about the other one when you are there, tell them that you are neutral and don't want to hear that or be put in the middle of their arguments. About the only good that can come of this is to remember how painful it is for you and to make sure that you pick the right person when it is your time to get married and have children! Good Luck to you!
2007-10-31 13:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard but try not to let it get the best of you. Them hating each other should have no effect on you (yet i know it does, been there done that). But you have to remember none of it is your fault and do what you can do to keep YOU happy! nothing you can do will fix things between them but you can at least do what you do best to keep things happy and positive in life.
2007-10-31 12:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by crazilyinsane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to each one seperatly.Let them read this question.
2007-10-31 13:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by tysdad62271 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋