She found out you cheated, got extremely angry, called you every name in the book and dumped you, hasnt spoken to you for weeks, but ur trying to smooth things over and then she decides to take you back. Would you think she was weak? Would u think she is easy to get over on. Would u have lost more respect for her?
This is the first time she would be taking him back for something like this and will the man most likely do it to her again?
2007-10-31 12:26:04 · 22 answers · asked by lookinfortruth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And why woudl you want to get back with her if u saw her as weak and planned to cheat on her again?
2007-10-31 12:40:55 · update #1
She's an idiot to take him back and he will not take her seriously; she's lost all credibility with him. Hell Yeah he'll cheat on her again. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-10-31 12:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫Tweedle Dee♪♫ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To overcome a obstacle in a relationship such as cheating is HUGE. If you can learn how to forgive and mend things, that would only build your relationship to be even stronger.
I see it as, how high your "love wall" is and how strong it will stand against everything in life that gets thrown at it.
In my personal opinion, I see a relationship as a marriage. In fact, it is a marriage but without the legal stuff. I dont believe in divorce.
Once you make that commitment, your done, there is no way out. At that point, if one of you gets weak and the relationship fails, its on both people cause it takes 2 people to make a marriage/relationship work.
You also have to understand a man's role and a women's role in a relationship. There should be no struggle for power or sex or anything like that. Once you understand this, there is nothing that could affect a relationship except for the people inside the love bubble.
If you can learn to forgive and take someone back, after they have shown you that they have done wrong, its says a lot about a women.
Men always do stupid things, but behind every good man, stand beside him, a great woman.
2007-10-31 20:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but had to comment on this one i think she is a fool 4 taking a man back after he had cheated what a mug!!! u know what they say once a cheat always a cheat and a leopard never changes its spots...
2007-10-31 19:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if you really love someone, and alot of people don't know the real meaning of love...you get married your guy cheats you get divorced. that is the normal way of life for too many people...
my man cheated on me, we were seperated for about 3 months, he promised me (of course) that he would NEVER do it again. i made him work for me...i mean we basically had to start over, he had to call me to make a date, we talked on the phone, we just started over...i forgave him, but don't get me wrong, for i will NEVER forget. however, being seperated made me a MUCH stronger person, i did have DID HAVE self esteem problems before he cheated and of course after, but i knew that in my heart he wasn't worthy of my love. he broke thru and we are now happily married for over 15 years, and he has never cheated on me again, and i would know trust me on that one! and once we got back together i made it perfectly clear that just one more time he would be eating his own dick for breakfast!
2007-10-31 19:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe he will cheat again on her eventually. he would see her as weak, and would think he can walk all over her. even if he doesn't cheat again she will always remember and wonder why she took him back. he won't have any respect for her.
2007-10-31 20:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To forgive someone is a big deal and they should be grateful. I say to screw up is human, however I think you should make it clear if he does it again that its over, and then stick to it. Its not just a question of loyalty and love anymore, its also a question of STD's.
2007-10-31 19:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by bob hoskins 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While everyone has their own reasons, I'm one of those women that in fact did this, and now I'm glad I did, I KNOW he's trustworthy andnow we're married, granted it doesn't always work out that way though.
2007-11-01 00:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Dolly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a boy but if you really love him and trst him not to do it again and to have more res[ect for you then take him back but let him know that if he evers dooes it again its over. and if he ever does do it again then make sure you dont take him back because he obviously cant be trusted.
2007-10-31 19:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not guy but i had to say something....
Men will only do what you allow them to do, he may view this as one of your weaknesses, if he was able to do it , get punished for it , then get back in it...then he will do it again
Leave him ....move on !!
2007-10-31 19:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by natilea H 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If someone took me back that easily, I would assume they're just plain easy. Chances are, if a man returns to an accepting woman like that, he will end up doing it to her again.
2007-10-31 19:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋