My gf is asking me to do sex with her, but without condem, she said that when it will going to come out , just withdraw ur penis. i am scare that what happen if i was not able to do it at correct time.. Plz help me.. and what if she didn't allow me to do that thing at that time...??
2007-10-31 23:46:31 · 20 answers · asked by premliya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her NO condom, NO sex.
You should use protection.
Lots of people get pregnant thinking the pull out method works.
2007-10-31 23:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to father a son/daughter I don't suggest you do it without proper protection. You can decrease the chance of pregnancy if she was on birth control, so I suggest you talk to her and educate her about that before having unprotected sex. There are plenty of birth control options out there so learn about them and choose one that fits her preference. Consult with her physician about it, they are a wealth of information. If that is not an option you can always go to the nearest WIC office. They have some info on family planning as well, but be sure not to have unprotected sex if you are not ready to become a father.
Being stuck with a kid you are not prepared for will ruin your life. Trust me when I say this. My best friend from high school went through all that, and I haven't seen him in over 10 years. Only phone calls here and there. It's sad. He could've been so much more.
Good luck.
2007-11-01 00:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Shawn L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use a condom. Are you prepared to help her take care of an infant right now? And raise the child until it's an adult and can move out? If you cant do that then dont take any chances. Be safe.
2007-10-31 23:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by poohbear450 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're questioning this whole situation means
you're NOT SURE OF IT YOURSELF, so don't do it.
Don't do it if you're uneasy about what you're planning to do. Trust your instinct.
Say NO to your girlfriend. Having sex without a condom doesn't make your "love" grow.
Practicing unsafe sex will really bite you in your behind one of these days.
Be a man and don't take advantage of the situation.
You know what to do. ;)
goodluck! ♥
2007-11-01 00:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you feel comfortable doing it with a condom, explain to her that not using a condom will not only lead to unwanted pregnancy but to STDs as well.
And I must say it is very unusual for a girl to want to have unprotected sex maybe her biological clock is ticking.
But tell her how you feel if she really does love you she will respect your views.
2007-11-01 00:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had a really good friend that use to do that all the time to her men. only she was trying to get pregnant without them knowing it. she would tell them to just pull out and when they would sleep with her without a condum she would roll on top and not let them. and the would be dating. i am telling you be careful. and by the way even if you pull out there is pre-*** and she can still get pregnant ...
2007-10-31 23:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to be serious and wear a condom unless she wants to get pregnant and if she doesn't like the feel of it then discuss her going on the contraceptive pill.
2007-10-31 23:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by sammy jo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats taking a big risk going raw. To many diseases out there. Use a condom or dont do it explain to her the risk factor"Keep your head covered'
2007-10-31 23:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pulling out early just doesn't work, take it from another guy with 2 kids.
2007-10-31 23:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by airjarrod 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable with it then don't do it. There is still a risk of pregnancy if you have sex this way. And there is a bigger risk of an STD.
2007-10-31 23:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋