i dont want to lose him
2007-10-31 22:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by da awsome person u luv 2 hate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"If you want to know what a mans like .... look at the way he treats his inferiors not his equals".
2007-10-31 22:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Raquel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant have both. You cant make your boyfriend the not so jealous type. He has to either find it in himself to trust that you will be true to him, and your friends, are just friends. Or he needs to find someone else who maybe doesn't have many or any guy friends for now, until he grows up. Because this isn't your problem, its his problem. I was the same way when I was younger. It ruined a lot of relationships, girls I loved with all my heart, but I just wasn't ready yet.
Tell him to be honest with himself, will he think deep down inside every time you talk to, or give one of your guy friends a hug it means a threat to your relationship? Because if it does, hes the one that in mature and is'nt ready to be exclusive. He should play the field a little and learn what its like to not have to worry.
2007-10-31 23:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by Shane S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy is never a good thing. It tends to just get worse over time. If there is trust between you then there shouldn't be any jealousy. If you don't want to lose him then you will just have to put up with it, but I think you will regret it. I think it will only lead to a lot of problems and you being miserable. You just have to ask yourself, Is it worth all the pain? Good luck.
2007-10-31 22:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Schoolgirl504 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a man is possessive of you, you are perceived in his chauvinistic mind, as his property, you are no different from his cattle, his car, his house.
Possessive boys have histories as bullies, they are also violent and have no respect for women in general and don't really believe in equal rights,,, while it is 'sexy' that he is possessive, he isn't right for a mature relationship.... somehow I don't think that's what you want... I may be wrong.....
2007-10-31 23:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nadz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him... meet him halfway at least. Hes jealous probably because of the way you talk to them or the way you look at them, etc.. work on making him special instead of just 1 of them.
2007-10-31 22:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look .. a boy will always feel jealous from other boys ...
but i will tell you the secret ... just play with him what he wants...
infront of those boys spoil him ... infront of those friends of yours make him be the king ... as if you are indirectly telling your friends that "THIS IS MY GUY" and I LOVE HIM :)
trust me when he sees you doing that he would get so blind and busy that he wouldn't even dare to think that there is something between you and your friends...
plus get him envolved ... tell him stories they told you or things happened ... stuff like that :) this is the only way to get him to approve your relation with other guys :)
wish you all the best :)
2007-10-31 22:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by A Friend 4ever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I cant stand possessive guys because in most cases they are usually the ones who do all the cheating,i dunno,do u wanna have to choose between him and your friends,because in my opinion that is the only way to deal with this situation.
2007-10-31 22:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your boyfriend has low self esteem so if u really love him tell him that everyday until he believes it and explain to him that hes the only one in your life thats you "boyfriend" the oher guys are just your homies . one of my college friends is experiencing the same bs and its driving me CRAZY!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-31 23:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by lil oreo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show him that your guy friends are like your brothers...there are no romantic feelings there and there never will be.
2007-10-31 22:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get him to hang around with u and the lads, ket him get to know them and see how it goes. whats the worst that can happen?
2007-10-31 22:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋