2007-10-31 22:00:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good question. I am a bachelor and want to be married! Haha! I think marriage is a human made concept. Maybe you just feel like having a party or something. Question for you though...how does a bloke get one of these stuck up, superficial cows to marry them? It's all pretty funny. I give up. My life is pretty much o.k anyway without worrying about all that crap. Marriage is a 'blending in with society' thing for a lot of people I think.
2007-10-31 22:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not very clear on why you ask this question. I will try to answer the best I can, starting with a few questions for you.
1) How long have you been married to the gal you are married to?
2) Are you happy in this marriage?
3) What was so great about being a bachelor?
4) What is so great about being married now? The good points...
5) Are you and your wife having problems currently?
6) Are you physically safe in this marriage?
7) Are there ways you and your wife could work things out, if you are having problems?
Please don't be insulted by question #6. Some men are physically abused by their wives. Not good. If that is the case-get away from her asap-with a restraining order to follow.
However, if, you are having problems aside from abuse, what kind of problems are they? Money? Make a budget, and stick to it.Are you thinking of cheating on her? Best not be thinking that way. Communication problems? Then please, start making time for "date night", for the two of you to get together and go somewhere (a park, dinner, etc.) or stay home and have a nice relaxing evening together. Or at least just go out for coffee and dessert, and sit and talk with one another, listening to what .the other person has to say.
If you have children, please, don't let the conversation always be about them, children grow up, move out on their own, and the two of you will still need to be able to talk with one another.
If possible, please consider counseling, with your pastor, or another counselor
Take care.
2007-10-31 22:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can't handle it. Want other women. Don't want responsibilty for anyone else. Married for the wrong reason(s).
2007-10-31 22:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You married the wrong woman.
2007-10-31 22:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You even have to ask? I think you already know the answer to this one-deep down in your heart.
2007-10-31 22:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by PontificalPape 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you have not put enough effort into keeping your marriage fresh. Try some marriage counseling before you go out and do something stupid.
2007-10-31 22:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I do not know....only you know the answer to that, but I would think really hard before I did something stupid, because you cannot take it back............and trust me, the truth will come out....I do not care how careful you may be........
2007-10-31 22:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Optimistic1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how long have you been togeather. the 7 year itch isnt just a myth. Ask my ex husband , hell tell you.
2007-10-31 22:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by eightieschick70 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Decode this lyrics " Dirty old man"
Who cannot keep his hands to himself.
John 8.44
What do you think?
2007-10-31 22:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal to feel that way it will come and go.
2007-10-31 22:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋