im 12 and in 7th grade, if you think im young, im not. i fell really lft out all the time though...like i am a 5th wheel (even if there arent 4 other ppl) i have a lot of friends...a lot of best friends too...but i dont have a true, always there for you, practically your sister friend. i mean i do, but she lives in miami and i live in georgia.. but here , in georgia, i want a true best friend, but they all have other ppl who are their trye best friends. i feel so depressed, becuse on myspace, im not on anyones top who i claim to be one of my best friends, this girl that ive known since lastt year seems to think im boring and moved on, and this other girl...who i thought would finally be the one, ends up hnging with the popular girls more and more each day, and as each day goes on, she treats me more and more like she doesnt like me. if true friends are hard to come by, then howcome im the only one that doesnt have one?
plz, i feel like crying now, help me!!!
2007-11-01 14:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all.....keep your mouth shut"Amercian idol" if you cant help someone then dont try to make it worse for them.
Anyways......Dont worry sweety ur only 12 and you have your whole life ahead of you. Teenage years are the most toughest yrs to get through but you will! Im almost 17 and i know how hard life has been for me so its not easy but you need to be strong.Also,i pray everyday and have seen wonders of God,You should also ask God to help you in anything your having difficulties with and be happy that your God is listening : )
Luv,Alisha
2007-11-01 14:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by BlossomMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, maybe your friends are fake. I have the same problem right now, except I'm in college. I had a lot of friends in high school but they all started to act weird and stopped calling me to hang out. So just get out there and make new friends! you've gotta do your part too, be nice and don't be shy... just don't come on too strong. Who cares about myspace, some people take that too seriously and try to have a popularity contest or something. It takes years to build great friendships. good luck
2007-11-01 21:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by puffer fish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I feel the same way right now...I am 14 and I am in 8th grade...I have a lot of friends and four really good friends, but I dont have a friend that is a very good friend and will always be there for me...I am on quite a few of my online friends' top friends because of the way I handle situations and how mature I am...you sure have gone through quite a few problems...I also have these kinda probs too...sigh...
I am a very good friend and if youd like, I can be one of your friends!! I promise I will (I'll try at least :D) be there for you when you need me!!! My email is on my profile, but I hardly talk on yahoo...I talk more on bebo, youtube, and myspace...do you have any of these?
I wish you the best of luck!!!
2007-11-01 21:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okk....Just Get Over Yourself....
......5 Things that Might Save You From being Lonely......
1.Be Yourself
2.Be Nice To Others
3.Dont start Rumors about people then say OMG thats so not true..
4.Dont be a bad person like ya know always getting in trouble...
and 5. Dont try to be popular and dont try to fit in....Just Be yourself..?
There is Lots Of Different Groups Ya Know Like Popular kids and the trouble makers and the geeks...
Dont try to become one of them Just make your own thing.....
I bet you Soon you will have the most bestest friends you could ever have.....Just do what i said... PEACE
2007-11-01 21:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ April; MX4LIFE! ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorced and was depressed when I was 13 years old. Not even a good friend so yes it been tough.
The brain naturally do that and you can fix it by getting involve in a volunteer program. There is people that need your help but you need to open your mind to realize that.
Don't pay attention to cyber bullying comment that was posted in Yahoo Answers.
2007-11-01 21:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M sorry but you haft to BE 13 to ask questions
and get answerer's.
If you look you will find a friends,it's hard starting
in a different school.
I'M not going to report it,but you need to read the
rules on Community Guidelines.
2007-11-01 21:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was that age i felt like that im 16 now and i have an amazing best freind shes always there for me we fight somtimes but still just dont worrie if you ever need to talk let me know i can help with anything
2007-11-01 21:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by His girl forever!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry you will find great freinds eventually. but here's a heads up middle school is when you get put in your socail groups so try hard to get in the one for you. and remember nothing is a good enough reason to kill your self...
2007-11-01 21:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by John P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl was never your friend, but give it time and you will find a true friend,and don't worry about the popular girls.things will get better trust me.
2007-11-01 21:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Red M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor little BRAT. ur crying over really stupid things.....get some perspective in life.
There are millions of kids in this world who go to sleep every night without food and many without shelter......and all you worry about is not being on top of someone's friend's list????
Typical selfish Americans!!!!
2007-11-01 21:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋