Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

>i have a friend who has a bad odor. this friend of mine is very close to me and she is a nice friend. how can i tell her that she has a bad odor w/out hurting her feelings?
>i have another friend who is not taking a bath. that's why everybody in school teases her. what advice should i give her?
> i have a friend who only knows me when she needs help.. i hate her!! i don't want to be her friend anymore!!! What shall i do?

pls. i need ur advice..thank you so much!!!♥♥♥

2007-11-01 21:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have it all..I live in Belair my parents bought me a bmw..Ima cheerleader , Im pretty,popular, i win queen every year @ school.. I get good grades .my family life is great,my boyfriend and i are very much in love.But im just not happy why ?

2007-11-01 21:05:30 · 15 answers · asked by ♫Autumn♫ 3 in Friends

he knows im still a virgen we love each other very much but he started talking about it he has expierence and oviously i dont he has two kids i feel like sometimes he wants to go at me but i dunno if i should do you think if i back off he will go to his ex?

2007-11-01 20:57:33 · 13 answers · asked by my 3 in Singles & Dating

why this marriage is important,and why the gals have to marry early than guyz..?guyz have enuf time to make their career but not gals??

2007-11-01 20:56:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has in & out of these type of internet sites for a few years now (I know by checking the history). Recently he had an email and they referred to him as a member sending him pics of potential matches, etc. I don't think he'd cheat, but he works long hours, and I sometimes wonder if he wants someone else. Also, money seems short at times. What would you think??

2007-11-01 20:46:04 · 11 answers · asked by mom of 2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright so this is a follow up question. I posted a question about if you should love your mom or wife more and you got it twisted and made it about me I was asking you not about me. I know I love my mom more then anyone in the world she will always be there for me and that will never change no matter what you say. Now no one really answered What You define as a mommas boy. I dont live in the same state as my mother and from my definition I am not one so if you think I am give me a definition that fits that. I am independent live in an apartment , dont go running to my mom for everything can handle it on my own plus that would be a long run. I am hopefully gonna turn pro in boxing soon so I can quit my gay job. So my question is how do you define a mommas boy and why do you think your wife should come first over your mother who will always be there for you.

2007-11-01 20:43:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

good thing
or
bad thing
we;ve been friends for awhile

2007-11-01 20:34:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have problem with my in law family. I tried to forgive and forget all the things they have done to me but it easy to say than done. I loved my husband so much but i just can't stand his family anymore especially my mother in law she such a pain in the ***. My husband knows about his mother attitude toward me but he didn't do anything about it because of his obligation to her. It hurt me a lot and sometime I really want to ask for a devorce and go far away from them. The only thing that stopped me is my daughter. Yes she the only reason for me to hold on and be patitence. But for how long?? I'm tired and each day I felt more depressed. My mother in law had done something teribble to me and I really want to take revenge on her but I can't if she still my mother in law and I know my husband won't let it. Between loves for my husband or revenge toward her what shoud I do?
Please I'm seeking for help and advice what should I do???

2007-11-01 20:32:55 · 16 answers · asked by fz7481 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My divorce is only awaiting the final paperwork, My sister is getting married and invited my Ex-wife, I was the victum of adultery and she is bringing a date. Do I attend and possibly ruin the event by having an altercation?

2007-11-01 20:32:54 · 24 answers · asked by Dr Sex and Soul 2 in Weddings

My son has asked me to ask this question.
He is marrying on 8 December 2007 - when should he send out the wedding invitations?
He and his fiance have written them up but wasn't sure when they should post them.
Today's date is the 2 November 2007.
thanks!

2007-11-01 20:26:31 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-01 20:25:23 · 40 answers · asked by lefty 4 in Singles & Dating

become a person who no longer wants or needs to have sex. She flat out states it's just not that important to her. She doesn't anticipate it, and never initiates it. You've been married ten years, had three boys, and are about as successful at work as you could have ever dreamed. Your wife knows full well that she is number one in your eyes, yet there just isn't any attraction there anymore. She claims to want you around, but it's probably because that's what husbands are "supposed" to do. She even took a job working overnights, to seemingly get away from your sexual advances. And there is absolutely no chance she is cheating. Basically, you're 35 and your sex life is dead, until you end it, or cheat.
Given that, there were times in your younger days when you turned down free no-strings sex (bj's, hj's, etc) with some girl, for whatever reason.
Would you tell your boys when they were old enough to never ever turn down sex, because some day you're going to be married?

2007-11-01 20:22:57 · 21 answers · asked by lovinglifeina69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a few months ago, i discovered that my wife is texting someone at work. Recently, she told me that hes flirting with her. I asked her if shes returning the flirts with flirts of her own? she replied no! she did mention to me that she has thought about what it would be like to kiss him? what should i do or how do i react? i have never been much of a jealous man! I trust her but this is eating at me? what do i do?

help please.....

kevin

2007-11-01 20:22:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I a size 8. but I have a big ***, my husbend loves it. so what do you think.

2007-11-01 20:06:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married 17 yrs., but loosing spark. This person, has just made me feel so alive again, my only problem is my kids. If it weren't for my kids I'd be gone in a heartbeat, I cant stand to have my husband touch me, and can't wait for my "friend" to touch me. Part of the problem is, i am very new at the whole internet thing and don't know if I am reading too much into it even though he has told me he wants me to come see him. Help!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-01 20:05:40 · 28 answers · asked by YankeeSouthernMama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do men start relationships soon after a seperation or divorce becuase they are litterly lonely? I believe men are only starting another relationship becuase they need sex and It is not necessaryly a commited one. What do you think?

2007-11-01 20:04:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when i see pictures or think about her being there for me i miss her and want her back, but in reality i dont give an f about her. i saw her with another guy and i felt nothing. i broke up with her about a month ago. i dont care she is sleepin with other guys, i dont even want her around because i know things are not the same. the sex wasnt even good i use to watch porn after she left my room. i couldnt climax without thinking about a hotter girl, sometimes my ex before her. but its still bothering me.

2007-11-01 19:58:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iam padmini born and brought up new delhi.we are three sisters and two brothers all my sisters and brothers are married and well settled.My fathers is no more my mothers is housewife she 74 years old. Iam unemployed,unmarried, my birth star is leo and rasi is simha. MY question us i have got so many porposals and india and abroad but non of the proposal successfull as a same thing in my education also iam in my Final year M.A.philosophy its now discontinue like when i start art and craft small business at residence it will also not be successful my mother done so many things like went sani singanapur temple in shiradi , ragu kethu temple in kumbhakonam, rudrasha pooja at siva temple, banana tree pooja, wearing diffrent type of rings , done diffrent type of homams but till date non successful, some year back i was taking dipretion tablets. my brothers are separeted they are living separetly now myself and my mother living along at our house.i dont want to depend on my brothers please

2007-11-01 19:56:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you really loved someone would you do all you can to make things work with them even though they are dating someone else....(NOTE: They are only dating, no one is in a relationship here.)....Or would you just let the other person have them.

MY OPINION: If I really have feelings for them and they make the effort to show me that they really have feelings for me, then yes..who knows what could happen.
BUT, if they seem more interested in the other person than me...HELL NO.

What do you think? Would you fight for the one you love?

2007-11-01 19:54:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

taken the joy out of your life.She is mad at me because I would not allow her to talk on my phone having a derrogatory conversation about his wife as they were having problems. I told her I just didn't want that in my house. This is the third couple she has stuck her nose into their business causing all kinds of dissention and choosing sides. I told her that if she had to do that then talk to them both at the same time if you want to help so much(she really was in it for the gossip. And I told her that their marriage is none of her business, they have kids and by her interfering not only is she making it worse for the couple but she isn't even thinking about the kids.So I told her to get off the phone, she just put her hand up in my face so she could hear more dirt. When she got off I told her never to do that in my house. I tried to explain to her that she is not a marriage counselor and she should worry about her own family Now she won't let me see her kids one of which I raised

2007-11-01 19:53:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-01 19:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

These past few days didn't seem to be pretty for me. I had lots of fights with Michael,my fiance,because he's been drunk and staying out so late at night. One day, I was driving when I stopped 'cause I saw him in a restaurant. I went closer when I saw that he was with my friend,Christine (who recently told me she was pregnant but won't tell with who). Michael seemed so different now, He had been missing on dates and time with my kids(we agreed we would have sex at night but he did'nt show up) I went to my friends for advice and they told me to cancel the wedding. WHAT SHOULD I DO? WOULD IT AFFECT MY PREGNANCY?(if it would then DO I HAVE TO GO THROUGH LABOR WITHOUT THE FATHER OF THE CHILD AGAIN?(this time i will have a home birth which would be more difficult without him)

2007-11-01 19:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ever since i met my guy friend, we have been told that we were very 'chummy' around each other. i had noticed that over the year, he did treat me different than everyone else, and we became really good friends. he would constantly flirt and compliment me, and it felt great to finally meet a guy i really liked and had fun with. but when he graduated, he moved far away, and we became more and more distant. i finally asked him if he ever had feelings for me, but he said no he hadnt because he had never thought about it. that confused me, but i ignored it and just accepted that he didnt, even though i knew something was weird. one night, after not talking to him for a long time, i finally asked him why he was so distanced from all of our friends, and he told me he's gay, and that was the reason he didnt go out with me. he said he had to tell me 'that dumb reason' because he didnt want to tell me the real reason(understandable) could he have had feelings for me?

2007-11-01 19:47:23 · 2 answers · asked by billys_talented77 2 in Singles & Dating

when he loved me, i didnt like him more than a friend.
once i started to, he had already started seeing another girl. even so, we went out but he decided he wanted to be with her. i was devastated.
now hes saying he's made a mistake, that he loves me but only likes her..but he wants me to wait for them to break up. he says: "i dont wanna be with you and have feelings for another girl but i dont care if im with her and i have feelings for you, i like u more." during all this, he says that its ok if we kiss and stuff (even tho he has a girlfriend) and its ok because we have something special.
whats he doing? hes one of my best friends and i really wanne believe he loves me but i cant be sure..
should i wait for him?
should i try and get over him? does he even love me??
please help me!

2007-11-01 19:46:39 · 12 answers · asked by Vertigo 3 in Singles & Dating

MY HUSBAND AND I ARE ALWAYS FIGTHING FOR STUPID REASONS. AND HE ALWAYS FINDS AND A EXCUSE TO LIVE AND SPENDS THE NIGTH WITH AT HIS MOMS HOUSE. I DECIDE TO STAY QUITE EVERYTIME HE
FEELS LIKE ARGUEING AND IT KINDA WORK BUT
IT GOT TO THE LIMITE I COULRENT TAKE IT ANYMORE AND WE GOT IN A ARGUMENT AND HE LEAFT TO HIS MOM HOUSE WHAT SHOULD I DO HIS ALWAYS LEAVING AND I DONT LIKE THAT.

2007-11-01 19:45:18 · 15 answers · asked by sporty_girl96 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't think ill ever understand what women are thinking, or why they do the things they do.

2007-11-01 19:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 19:37:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what will u think of when someone mentions 2 pingpong balls and a hotdog loves 2 slices salmon?

2007-11-01 19:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by Tan Boon Hwee K 1 in Singles & Dating

WHAT ELSE CAN I SAY?

2007-11-01 19:31:37 · 10 answers · asked by Dr Sex and Soul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-01 19:31:14 · 15 answers · asked by London 2 in Other - Family & Relationships