ever since i met my guy friend, we have been told that we were very 'chummy' around each other. i had noticed that over the year, he did treat me different than everyone else, and we became really good friends. he would constantly flirt and compliment me, and it felt great to finally meet a guy i really liked and had fun with. but when he graduated, he moved far away, and we became more and more distant. i finally asked him if he ever had feelings for me, but he said no he hadnt because he had never thought about it. that confused me, but i ignored it and just accepted that he didnt, even though i knew something was weird. one night, after not talking to him for a long time, i finally asked him why he was so distanced from all of our friends, and he told me he's gay, and that was the reason he didnt go out with me. he said he had to tell me 'that dumb reason' because he didnt want to tell me the real reason(understandable) could he have had feelings for me?
2007-11-01
19:47:23
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also, a few weeks before he told me all this, we were at a dance where another one of my guy friends later came to. before my other friend came, he didnt really talk at all, but when my other friend did come, he became really weird. he would stare me down, then stare the other guy down, especially when i was talking to the other guy. slow dancing was especially bad, he was dancing with another girl and still staring at us. then after about an hour of my other friend being there, he decided to leave. it wasnt like i was all over the other guy, i treated him like i do all my guy friends. it really doesnt make sense!
2007-11-01
19:55:11 ·
update #1