Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

i need something to symbolize greed

such as how a heart represents love, a dove represents peace and so on and so on

2007-11-01 16:45:45 · 12 answers · asked by L 2 in Family

I became closer witha a girl at a halloween party, I knew her before but last night I danced with her all night and even got a kiss or two out of it. I would like to ask her out or at least talk to her but How long should I wait to call her? any further words of advice or encouragement would be apreciated.

2007-11-01 16:45:08 · 16 answers · asked by chrigity 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14, i have this probelm. My parents are strugling with money, and it really makes me nevrous, worried and depressed. I love the house I live in because ots the house I have grown up in, and I am afriad we will have to move. What should I do? Does this happen with allot of famileys?

2007-11-01 16:44:38 · 21 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

im separated for 7 yrs now but my ex still get on my nerves. i wont say i still hate him now coz i dont but i still find myself sitting sometimes thinking how i wish it never failed and we were able to save it. i'm not inlove with ex anymore but i guess as my children's dad there will always be some love for him there and i do love my outlaws very much. i guess coz my own parents are awful to me esp now with my mama enjoys belittling me. that's the reason why i cling to my outlaws sometimes esp when my mum outlaws calls me on phone and started crying i will end up being affected. with ex all feeling are gone and im very happy with my bf now although he is so far from me.but can we really forget those awful memories and the feeling of nostalgia of wishing that incident never happened? ex choose a whore mistress and impregnated her hope its really his child!!!!.....so my kids suffered and im a broken person after separation......

2007-11-01 16:43:25 · 4 answers · asked by silly me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am engaged to a woman who I have been dating for 9 years on and off. We have a 3 year old daughter and a 12 year old
(she had from a previous relationship). Lately she has been real short tempered with me. I work two jobs and am only home for a little time. I have been recently suspicous that she has been seeing a guy that lives on the same street. She will leave the house and he will leave the house only a short time after she does. When she comes back, he comes back not too long after. It hasn't been until I have started to notice this, that she gets a attitude when ever she is around me. She will come in the house and get an attitude out of no where and want to leave. She will then leave and then the neighbor will leave. She has had this non chalant attitude with me and will not talk any problems out with me (she will act like a child and walk off or drive off). Lately, even when I have a day off she will try to find a way to leave either through argument. What do I do?

2007-11-01 16:39:11 · 10 answers · asked by xxaveragejoexx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

has anyone had a a crush on some teacher or tutor? i really like her. shes smart, pretty, nice, adorable, helpful, and just really different from all the girls at my high school. there is a catch, shes in college and i am only in high school. shes four years older than me and I know things can never work out between her and me. has anyone else been in the same situation as mine?

2007-11-01 16:36:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so why, If not why not?

2007-11-01 16:36:44 · 15 answers · asked by lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

Today I went outside and then people were staring at me and then one guy was like walking in front of me back and forth and then he smiled at me. So I followed all your advice and I smiled back, but then that's it. He did nothing. Some guys just went up to my face and give me a nasty look and say "sexy", but no I don't want those men. Then another man who was decent stared at me for so long and I stared back, and he was gonna approach me and then he decided to go back and left. Then this man who was like 40ish is the one who went up to me and told me oh you're so beautiful i wanna squeeze you, Okay I am 18. So the people who are like my age or a little bit older than me won't approach me, but the one who's almost my parents' age will? Can you all men help me? What do I do to get them to approach?

I don't have a pic but people tell me I look like the girl on the left and I dress like her too, my hair is also like that but darker.

http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/4544/phoebefp0.jpg

2007-11-01 16:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I really need ur help please!
I just moved to a small town and I'm half american and half mexican but I do have tan skin, not extremely but yeah.
I'm finiding it hard to make friends and talk to guys, do guys don't approach me because I'm different? or why? I don't think I'm ugly so why?
I'm just getting so depressed that no guy seems to get close to me.
Do you think it's just my imagination?

2007-11-01 16:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is dating a guy who is not of the same religion as we are and he is a nice guy but I guess no one will ever be good enough for me. how do I let my daughter go while still protecting her from herself and her lovesick heart?

2007-11-01 16:34:16 · 14 answers · asked by thedadof7 2 in Singles & Dating

How can i get a girl to notice me and then go out with me. im 14 and i talk to her some shes never way from her friends at school and Should i ask over myspace?

2007-11-01 16:33:14 · 19 answers · asked by adam o 1 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I am with my boyfriend i always have an orgasm when im on top but when he is on top its just not the same and i dont climax. What should I/He do so I can.

2007-11-01 16:32:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 16:30:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SO THEY THIS GUY IN MY SCHOOL THAT IS HEKA CUTE BUT HE GOTS A GIRL. AND TODAY WE SAT TOGETHER IN CLASS AND HE GOT HEKA NEVUS. AND IN MY OTHER CLASS HE WAS LOOKING AT ME ALL THE TIME....SO WHAT YOU THINK?DO HE LIKE ME?

2007-11-01 16:28:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how should a woman deal with a jealous , intimidating
guy .

2007-11-01 16:28:07 · 4 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

who is life partnor and when we married. plz tell my future and my carrier

2007-11-01 16:27:49 · 9 answers · asked by KANCHAN R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so there's this guy i like him a lot. I am trying to get closer to him (get to know him) but im not sure what to talk about with him. I mean, we're both 14 and i go to an all girls school and right next door to us is an all boys school. Our schools are about 5 minutes walking distance apart and stuff so yeah. Anyway, im not sure if this guy likes anyone, but i sure do have a big crush on him. I am usually a good advice giver, but i am just unsure right now. Some help?

2007-11-01 16:26:46 · 2 answers · asked by songofthesea_jewel 3 in Family

In the 3 years that we have been married, I have always felt like I am the least important to my husband. He treats his mother like a queen. We can all be together and he will do something she doesn't agree with. She'll call him out on it and he'll accept it. If I do it I have to experience hours of attitude and silence. If she calls him in the room he'll get up and go right away. If I call him he will sit and wait for me to call him again. Then when he does come to see what I wanted he will act upset -- like as if I am bothering him or something. There has always been a difference in how he treats his mom and me.

I have told him this a millions times but tonight we got into an argument and I brought it up again. He said the reason he does (he acknowledged it) is because she's not bossy like me. He says I'm too aggressive and bossy. But he's cheated on me twice and lied tons of times but I still treat him with the same respect as I'd treat my mother with. Sometimes even better.

2007-11-01 16:26:23 · 32 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-01 16:24:52 · 25 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 16:24:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

are most people capable of hurting even there closest friends and family? in any way like financial or emotionally or in anyway. or just totally screwing over all of his close friends for the hell of it or benefit.
can normal people go apply for jobs with no hesitation what so ever and get many jobs that they apply to?

2007-11-01 16:24:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 16:24:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i get my exboyfriend to understand y i dont want our girls staying at his house again after my youngest was abused while sleeping at dads. he doesent even act like he cares what has happened

2007-11-01 16:23:49 · 8 answers · asked by C F 1 in Family

2007-11-01 16:22:41 · 31 answers · asked by markymark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it worth the time and energy (and money)?

2007-11-01 16:21:54 · 30 answers · asked by Zoupana 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband filed for divorce two weeks ago. We have been fighting alot and he threw my to the ground and I hurt my foot. I told him to move into his mother's house because I was scared that something more serious would happen. So he files for divorce, does not tell me. I got served the same morning he was still living with me and we were intimate that morning. He took all his stuff to his mother's house. We have two kids 7 & 8 years old. We have made a scedule so we both get equal time with them. The problem is that he tries to kiss me, sometimes i kiss him back. (a little peck) He cried in my arms a few days ago and we held each other for about 5 minutes. I begged him to go to marriage counciling but we went last year one time and it was horrible. We fight verbally all the time. I really want to stay with him but I know we both need help to learn how to deal with eachother. He says he loves me, but I asked him to say "it's over, I want to be divorced" but he won't say it? I'm confused

2007-11-01 16:21:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this really nice girl at my school and I haven't even introduced myself to her. I'm the new jid and i don't really know too many poeple, so i need to know what i should do to ask her out or start a relationship with her. This is serious and i don't want any of those goofy answers, so plz help.

2007-11-01 16:20:48 · 5 answers · asked by wasou2938 2 in Singles & Dating

I found a dress that I love and the color is diamond white, which looks amazing on my skin tone, but I saw a dress similar that only comes in ivory or white. What's the difference between diamond white and ivory?

2007-11-01 16:20:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok.....heres the deal.....i'm not gonna say much....but my parents are really trapping me n the only way out of the situation is to move......dont ask bout it.....but thats the deal.........but how do i go bout doin that?

2007-11-01 16:19:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

6 years.bad last 2 months due to acombinationof things. anyways we brokeup.she kinda said she dosent have thesame feelings after I constantly tried 2 get back with her by texting, email...ect. before that she said we just needed time and she loves me, has nothing 2 due with other guys, just needed some time 4herself due to stress, work, college. AnywaysI think the more I tried to get back, the more I pushed her away.I know some other guy might be trying to get on her, but whatever we are apart right now,and I know it wouldnt mean anything.i have been gold to her and am always there for her.I recently send her a letter telling her that ((I am here for her, we prob need some time apart after 6 years, and I will be here.I told her I was an idiot for bugging her)) When I did bug her i tried to blame everthg on myself which ishouldnt of because i am a nice guy.How much time should i give her before i contact her.week, weeks? and should i do anyth in the mean time 2 show her i love her? or ?

2007-11-01 16:19:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating