Whenever I am with my boyfriend i always have an orgasm when im on top but when he is on top its just not the same and i dont climax. What should I/He do so I can.
2007-11-01 16:32:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you have a tilt uterus. not all/every uterus is a straight entry. Maybe by your b/f being on top shifts your uterus.
2007-11-01 16:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by benejueves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There maybe nothing you can do sometimes that's just the way the dice rolls at least you can climax when you on top. That's better then not climaxing at all.
2007-11-01 23:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that his penis is not reaching the right area when he is on top and he doesn't have the good control of how to excite you but when you are on top you have the total control so you can push dipper, he should work on the foreplay and his control and you should tell him how you like it, he is not in your body or share the same biology as you so you have to help too, nice massages, work on your sensitive area and better control Hopefully will do the magic. Good luck and have fun and be safe.
2007-11-01 23:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Megan P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple. Do what you need to do to have an orgasm, if it means to be extremely sure you're on top for some period of time during love-making. DEMAND that experience from your boyfriend. He may not realize it, but HE TOO will enjoy sex with you if you do have orgasmS, the more the better. I know that from personal experience, but also from my studies on human sexuality in my graduate studies to be a mental health professional, which I was for 20+ years, now retired. So, for you AND FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND (BUT MOSTLY FOR YOU) DEMAND!!!!!!!! time on top during sex, and DEMAND time to explore ways to have sex that will excite you to orgasm. You AND HE will enjoy sex MUCH more!! God Bless you.
2007-11-01 23:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's easily because being on top is favourite position for both of you
Maybe you and your boyfriend can develop an understanding for he times his orgasm such that you climax first with you on top and then you can switch sides for him to climax.
you can also try the following links
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/orgasmtrouble.htm
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sexandrelationships/helpwithorgasms.htm
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/sex/blended-orgasm
2007-11-01 23:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by quizmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're one of the fortunate women that can orgasm through intercourse. the reason you can climax when you're on top is probably because in that position you're basically in control..of the friction, speed and likely your clitoris is getting stimulation as well in that position. none of that happens when he's on top, so it makes sense that it's more difficult to get aroused. you could use your hand (or his) to stimulate your clit when he's on top. that would help.
2007-11-01 23:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by shyanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. My wife is the same way. Let me tell you it is so much better when she is on top. I asked her this same question believe it or not. When you are on top, your man is hitting your spot. It could be the angle of how you are. Or how he is. The penetration is deeper. When he is on top, you are at a different angle and he is not hitting the spot. You are fine, Just keep on ridin him girl.
2007-11-01 23:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by pumper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is common. Many women can only climax while in one position, and there aren't many ways to change that unless you add something new to the other position, like toys or...erm...getting hands involved down there.
If you go to a shop like Priscillas, they sell creams that are made to make things tingly. That might help...just hope you're not allergic! (Ouch.)
2007-11-01 23:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by Esma 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest having him wear a tickler ring. They are mostly latex and will stretch to fit. Just make sure it is lubricated before being placed on the shaft. Also, it should be placed close to the head.
2007-11-01 23:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by David T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you this, but I had the same problem, and it happened that it was his fault! When I found a new BF, ( he was longer) I had no problem, and it was because the old one I was with was just too short!
2007-11-01 23:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by leah j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you're on top, you control the motion.
What you might want to try is,when hes on top,have him move his body forward, the penatration isnt deep but it will stimulate your clit
2007-11-01 23:36:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋