How long should I wait?

Question

I became closer witha a girl at a halloween party, I knew her before but last night I danced with her all night and even got a kiss or two out of it. I would like to ask her out or at least talk to her but How long should I wait to call her? any further words of advice or encouragement would be apreciated.

Answer 1

Tomorrow.... or even today depending on if it is early enough. Plan on making it a short call but if she wants to chat... chat! But don't make it a long call. Keep her a bit curious and talk about her as much as you can! Invite her out for a milk shake or something where you can get a chance to talk to her more. Not a date but a get aquainted meeting.... you may change your mind after talking to her more.... I know I did quite a few times.

Simple rules I lived by.

1) Take it slow, take some time to get to know her.
2) If we don't atleast have some things in common.. bad start. Look for someone else before the emotions run the head!
3) If she is into drugs, alcohol etc... Keep looking find a good one.
4) If she has been sleeping around etc. before we date she will probably during dating or even marriage... keep looking.
5) Meet the parents and family... you'll get a better idea of what she is like!
6) Save sex for after the wedding! If I am wrong about 1 to 5 I don't want to have to worry about a kid or disease.

If you get to here.... BINGO!

To summarize it if you can't see yourself with her in 40 years... why spend your money and time on her now...the search for a good catch is hard enough why waste time on an incompatible person.

Good Luck
Todd

Answer 2

By asking the question, you show that you are unsure. By waiting, you want to hide the fact that you lack experience. At least that's the image I'm getting.

Do this: don't wait, keep the catch if it's good. But if you still want to keep this "profile" just be direct, imposing and objective about it, while giving a few charming remarks... tell her to go out with you, but make your schedule look "busy", be the fake popular guy. I guess that's the only way to go safely about "not showing too much eagerness".

But then again, this ain't hollywood, just do what you want to do, go with her, and don't imitate anything you see or hear. If she likes you, she likes you, if you act and she likes the real you, who got screwed?

Answer 3

I really don't think you need to wait too long to call her. You can do it this weekend, like this Friday night maybe, if both of you are free.
It seems like she is interested in you as well.

Answer 4

HE LOVES YOU.YOU TOO FEEL BUT YOU COULD NOT DECIDE.you want to understand him more.Suggest meet at a point and decide.If you both understand each other TO WAIT FOR SOME TIME and finalise friendship FINALLY
when you two like each other.

Answer 5

Give her a week, as soon as you do call her she'll be so excited to hang and have a million things to talk about... just be sweet about it

Answer 6

You didn't have a problem kissing her??? Why in the heck would you have a problem calling her? This never makes any sense to me.

Answer 7

2 days. and i don't know why. lol that might mean call her tomorrow. just ask her out somewhere casual but nice. a daytime date. a place where you can talk and get to know each other better. good luck!

Answer 8

2 - 3 days. Anything sooner and you could come accross too keen/eager. Anything after that and you come across as too disinterested.

Answer 9

Cut the crap and the games. If you want to call her, call her (now). Simple as that.
Best of luck =)

Answer 10

Don't make my mistake call her as soon as possible, you are probably not the only guy calling her.