Today I went outside and then people were staring at me and then one guy was like walking in front of me back and forth and then he smiled at me. So I followed all your advice and I smiled back, but then that's it. He did nothing. Some guys just went up to my face and give me a nasty look and say "sexy", but no I don't want those men. Then another man who was decent stared at me for so long and I stared back, and he was gonna approach me and then he decided to go back and left. Then this man who was like 40ish is the one who went up to me and told me oh you're so beautiful i wanna squeeze you, Okay I am 18. So the people who are like my age or a little bit older than me won't approach me, but the one who's almost my parents' age will? Can you all men help me? What do I do to get them to approach?
I don't have a pic but people tell me I look like the girl on the left and I dress like her too, my hair is also like that but darker.
http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/4544/phoebefp0.jpg
2007-11-01 16:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS - Please don't say "haha yeah right, you wish" or whatever, I'm not here to brag and I'm not delusional. Thank you.
2007-11-01 16:35:44 · update #1
You look and dress like Phoebe Halliwell?(Lol....)
OK...if you do look as good as Alyssa...no guy will approach you. Your way too good looking. Guys will think that you A)Have a Boyfriend and/or B)Would never like them anyway. So they will smile an walk away
You will need to do a bit more then just smile in most situations. No guy will take the chance with you, because they don't want to get burned...again. So add in a little wave, stare or such. Even better stop and say something to the guy. Just ask the time or such...but add in a comment to stroke his ego a bit. You need to let the guy know you like him, and your not just doing the 'nice hot girl who does not like you at all' thing.
A party or such might be a better place too. Anywhere a guy might feel more comfortable.
2007-11-01 16:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should probably hang out with girls whose friends you like. Then there are much better chances those friends will approach you. Then again, the probability of a guy approaching you when you are alone somewhere is much slimmer. Guys are normally nervous and mostly the "kind you don't like" don't hesitate to go right for the lay...
I have gone to girls out of nowhere and even dated a few. But it requires more will power and effort than just meeting girls in the university where I study, as long as someone knows them, and we have something in common etc. So I rarely just go for someone out of the blue these days, unless I'm at a party (a good spot) or somewhere similar.
Hope that helps
2007-11-01 16:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by snakker2k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a numbers game, just be a personable, friendly person who is willing to engage someone in conversation whether you feel you have something to gain from them or not, in other words talk to people you are not attracted to or another way to put it is value people & treat them with respect. If you have a dynamic personality, men will view you as more approachable & will not be so timid. Also whats wrong with initiating the conversation, Im not saying hit on them or flirt, but if you are attractive, you will get more attention than you want if you have this kind of personality.
2007-11-01 16:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you look like her, then you definitely have a beautiful face... maybe your clothes were a bit skimpy... maybe if you dress right, the right people will approach you. thats weird, because the girl in the picture is moderately dresses, i mean, girls your age dress like that all the time...
2007-11-01 16:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK uh here i think Ur forgetting the fact that guys could be shy too ... jeez get that through Ur head ....if Ur shy so what there guys AR probly shy too . so uhh here you goe nothings wrong with you {{{ o and if you look like that girl dam you have no need to worrie }} but anywayif ur reelly want them goe talk to one of them o and by the way myspace.com/restinpeacealex
2007-11-01 16:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by alex g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
young guys are still learning the game and afraid
the old guys got experience and past regrets of failed past oppurtunity to approach that fuel them and they are pervs
2007-11-01 16:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter if you look like her or if you look like a baboon, if a guy wants you, he wants you.He will do whatever it takes to win your affection.
2007-11-01 16:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're name's seductive girl.
shouldn't you know this?
2007-11-01 16:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by blair. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋