Ok I really need ur help please!
I just moved to a small town and I'm half american and half mexican but I do have tan skin, not extremely but yeah.
I'm finiding it hard to make friends and talk to guys, do guys don't approach me because I'm different? or why? I don't think I'm ugly so why?
I'm just getting so depressed that no guy seems to get close to me.
Do you think it's just my imagination?
2007-11-01 16:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's only in the mind. One of the big goals in life is to have our hearts open to some insecurities, and we are able to get in touch with that part of ourselves. This is why you hear so much about self-love and self-esteem. Try to at least know in mind, if not your heart, that you are all the wonderful things you thought you were. Try to begin to have that kind of self-worth. Also, know that this will get easier with time. You have to re-establish your sense of self, and that will take some time. It gets easier each time you go through this. The first first time is the most difficult.
Just remember that what makes you feel wonderful is when you feel that you are.
ravishingV
2007-11-01 17:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by ravishingV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just moved there. Give it some time and reach out to some people. People might not be used to making new friendships in a small town.
2007-11-01 23:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by livewithoutfear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, Girl what you want dudes be all up on you, right off the bat.
Give it a little bit, I just moved and I barely am making friends and i been here like 3 months now.
2007-11-01 23:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're fine the way you are. I think its because youre new and probably guys are shy. Try to get to know them before you make moves. I think its your imagination
2007-11-01 23:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Allie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself--guys do not like phonies so pretending you are something you are not will turn them off. Give them time to get used to you and don't force yourself on them---they will seek you out eventually, first out of curiosity, and then to better get to know the REAL you.
2007-11-01 23:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you seem so desperate for a guy's attention...just try to make friends first, and THEN worry about guys...if you still HAVE to worry
2007-11-01 23:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by purple daisies! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋