Family & Relationships - 1 November 2007

look i have guyfriend that is the type that is shy so how can i start a conversion with him. plz give me tip on how

2007-11-01 15:34:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-01 15:33:26 · 8 answers · asked by Andrew1968 5 in Singles & Dating

my friend is on the phone with me crying and complaining cuz her boyfriend broke up with her and i dont know what to tell her need help now!!!!!!!!

2007-11-01 15:32:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Just wondering --- 4 years ago met a guy, we dated-- had a child. he began using coke and became physical with me -never punched but manhandled me and stuff --eventually reported to police--we broke up for about a year and a half and he received counseling--began dating again (it's been a year and he doesn't do the drugs anymore, I never did) we're talking about moving in together but I can't forget what happened and worry that it could happen again and affect my kids and I worse-- i have another child but she never witnessed anything

2007-11-01 15:27:44 · 33 answers · asked by mcmeme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...a 28 year old, single male living at home. Women seem turned off by this when this fact per se is irrelevant. I have no need to move away from home. I love living with my family, it's close to work and it keeps me financially well off. I can save money if I decide to move one day, yet at the same time I can spend money on fun things that most people can't afford because they moved out prematurely. I therefore have no need whatsoever to move out, and neither do my other adult siblings. My parents are the biggest supporters of this decision. While most parents kick their kids out then regret it it due to their feeling alone and guilty, my parents can enjoy having the family together. After all, why have such a big house when none of your kids live there anymore? I get so much crap from friends, extended family and coworkers about my family's living arrangements. I also get crap from the aforementioned people because I never date.

2007-11-01 15:26:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 15:25:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Men don't seem to have a clue about pleasuring me during sex, they just stick their dick in and pound away until they get off. I've only ever had orgasms when I've been with girls but I don't want to turn lesbian so what am I to do??

2007-11-01 15:25:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this friend whom i used to be really good friends with. we kissed once. after i went out of the country for vacations we dont talk as much, abd she told me to leave the past back. telling me that she didnt love me in some ways. aftrer that i started dating other girls. now she tells me that ive been hiding something from her so i told her everything ive done. she says its over, idk wat shes talking about. i wanna confront her but i dont know wat to say. im in love with another girl too

2007-11-01 15:24:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so, i have been with my guy since i was 13 and he was 15(now 23 and 25). we barely talk or see each other. we both work full time and go to school. i recently moved back home to focus on school, now i see him less. he won't make any commitments or promises about the future. i just wanna be happy. i don't wanna wake up at 40 and hate myself for staying so long. i adore him and wanna be with him for life. i don't know if i stay cuz its comfortable and safe or why else. i'm afraid nobody else will love me. help i'm so torn!

2007-11-01 15:24:05 · 41 answers · asked by annie 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I'm 46 and my wife is 23. When we got married she was 19 and a virgin. We started dating when she was 16 which was her junior year of college (she was really smart and got to graduate High School when she was 14, no joke, and NO she isn't a dork).
As I was saying, she was 16 when we started dating, and I was 39 I think. We NEVER had sex until she was 19, on our wedding night. I was her first time. But when we were dating, we did kiss and make out, but no one saw us. She and I never approved of PDA (public display of affection). And the years we were dating, we've never seen each other naked. When we were dating, we did sleep in the same bed on a few times, but no sex or nudity or any sexual activity. So, was our relationship and stuff illegal? Any ideas. All feedback is appreciated. Thanks guys.

2007-11-01 15:23:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been married for 17 yrs now and have 2 children.Ive stayed with my husband for so long for my childrens sake im at the end of my tether at the moment.He's never cheated or hit me theres just no love from him,No kisses no cuddles and i have tried all sorts and nothing has happend.We dont do anything together we dont go out anywhere he has his room in spare bedroom and i have my bedroom and he would rather be in spare room than sleep with me.Only time he wants sex is when he has watched some porno.Wouldnt be so bad if i denied him it but its always me asking him for it and its a quicky and then up and off back away from me.I feel so cold and unemotional with him i know i dont love him anymore my kids love him and adore him and i know would break there hearts if i ask him to leave im in a situation i can leave and be happy or stay and my kids be happy and im still in the rutt i was in.Not sure if anyone can answer my question or my problem.Do i stay or do i go?

2007-11-01 15:23:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, it kinda pissed me off but I didn't say anything and just kept quiet. My wife's friend just tapped her butt, i guess horse playing or something. I guess he was playing around. My wife was surprised and it kinda pissed me off. What should I do?

2007-11-01 15:20:53 · 7 answers · asked by ancient_thames 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met my BF on blackgirlsconnect several months ago, and he said that he loves me and wanna marry me, i love him too, but i know so many girls around him like him very much, and even some are crazy, i wonder should i accept his proposal or not, why he is so excellent!

2007-11-01 15:17:21 · 12 answers · asked by BB 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to a concert and while i was in the mosh,i met this guy, who was super cute & was helping me when i was getting thrown around. im 14 & in 8th grade but i said i was in 10th.. (he`s in 11th) he asked for my number & we talk on the phone all the time. & were hoping to hangout soon? should i tell him? ADVICE PLEASE :]

2007-11-01 15:16:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i'm like really shy and haven't been in a relationship in a long time

2007-11-01 15:14:27 · 24 answers · asked by ~C.b.~ 1 in Singles & Dating

So here it is, we were really good friends before he asked me out but now we're going out we don't talk much because i can't think of anything to say and one of our friends told me he said the same thing. He's not the smarest guys ever so i can't ask for help and i know he love gutair hero but i have to wait until christmas to get it and learn everything, i need some frunny or cheesey ice breakers, help please!

2007-11-01 15:13:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 15:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she's not really addicted to it she started ever since she went on vacation with her cousinss because her cousins teached her how to smoke and her cousins are the same age as them.....i tell her thats bad and she says"its only cigarettes and you can get cancer ony if you smoke the whole thing to the yellow part"...... when she tells me that i dont have nothing to say because i dont know if its true...what can i tell her!!

2007-11-01 15:11:25 · 24 answers · asked by y dont u answer my quest. nomore 3 in Friends

well i rescheduled my court date back in July and Nov is my new court date. I was going throu a divore and my wife and court asked me to leave the house since i was not on the deed. ive been marr for 4 years. also my wife was able to get the child until we went back to court. Well the court recomended that i have two day wed and sun for two hours. bac in mar-July my wife lied and said that i was this horribe person. thre has been no D.V in our marriage at all. Well things have change yes we have lawyers she has an agressive one. Well my wife has went agaist the order i see my child sometimes fore times a week, i care for her when she go to work. we also have been hanging out such as going to dinner and spendingtime with my daughter together we also slep together four times. I just found out that she had a miscarriage with my child. she told me that it was not suppose to happen. will the court get on her for taking up the courts time. it seems everything is fine now. what will happen

2007-11-01 15:09:25 · 3 answers · asked by Rio S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been married for six yrs and now he has called her to wish her happy birthday . the new ttopic between my husband and his ex is to talk about my medical condition. she has took it upon herself to send information about monavie juice that is helping her along with an order slip asking who referred me to tje product. my husangd got mad with me because i got mad with him abt calling his ex on her birthday and talking to her about anything about me. We are buying a house, he is so angy that I won't take ex girlfriend's advice that he told me the marriage is over and that he is only taking to her to help me. He also told me I was crazy. ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????I

2007-11-01 15:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by CAVEWOMAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm expecting my first child any day now and as my husband works away my mother has come to say with me. Unfortunately she's driving me crazy. Last time she stayed with us she destroyed my kitchen, this time it was the carpet in the living area. It's covered under our insurance, but I'm now left with a bare cement floor which I'm told wont be fixed for at least 6 weeks. I'm scared about what she's going to do next. I've asked her to leave once already telling her she was putting me under a bit of extra stress, but she started crying and made me feel like a monster. I don't know how to get her to go but she's got to go. I can't watch her 24/7, I'm too tired.

2007-11-01 15:08:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-01 15:06:49 · 10 answers · asked by poppy vox 4 in Singles & Dating

about 2 to 3 weeks ago i posted a question about a girl i like and then a few days later that she asked my friend out. Now I have another friend who is a girl and dosent have so much in common but we get along great and she says she likes me not because im cool or not cool but because of my personality and she dosent want me to change and i think she loves me. BUT the girl that i have had a crush on for awhile wants to go out with me now after she went out with my best friend and didnt like him... WHAT should i do and should i ask the girl ive had a crush on or a girl who has a crush on me...

please SAVE ME
S.O.S. SAVE ME :(

2007-11-01 15:04:36 · 25 answers · asked by Caboose 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, why? What makes a person sexy to you?

2007-11-01 15:03:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked the guy I like if he wanted to watch a movie tonight, and he agreed to. But he didn't say if he was going to call me, I assumed he would because he did last time. But he didn't actually SAY this time that he would call. I am scared to call because I don't know if really wants to watch the movie and I don't want to sound desperate by asking him, then calling him about it later. What should I do?

2007-11-01 15:02:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay this is complicated so bare with me...i was dating this boy..who is best friends with my ex boyfriend who is still apparently in love with me.. its been three years. so i broke up with the recent boy and started seeing my ex boyfriend..then my recent ex came back to, then it was a massive mess for awhile.. then they told me that i had to choose. so i did i choose the ex not the recent one haha. but then i wasnt over the recent one so i was on a break with my ex and the recent boy and i had sex, now my ex wont speak to me and the recent boy is mad at me because i picked my ex over him. now my recent boy is talking to me again and wants to hang out, but says that he isnt sure about getting back together cause he doesnt want to get hurt...and my ex boyfriend will never talk to me again cause ive hurt him to many times but i still want to be his friend..i know its complicated...

2007-11-01 15:01:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-01 15:00:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok by accident i was looking at this website called familywatchdog.us . I do often go to this website because i want to make sure my neighborhood is safe for my son. When doing this i was shocked to see a friend whom we have let in our house, took to dinner and hung out at his house. He is an older man. I have never left my son alone with him thank god! But when i did a search to see in his state what the real offence was due to, it was child molesting a female relative between the ages of 0-5 years old. It did not list the childs correct age. However i am just really hurt that i know this. Do we say something to him? He is a good guy and he is the last person we would have thought would do something like this.

2007-11-01 14:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 55, she's 45. I've been seeing her off and on for 14 years. She ain't no beauty, but neither am I. I've never been married before. She's got five grandkids, age 6 to 13 living with her. Which I'd have to take in if we got married. If it was just her, I wouldn't think twice, but I'm worried about the children getting to me or will I get used to them? Wish anyone could give some advice.
P.S. No smart as* answers or you will be turned in.

2007-11-01 14:55:46 · 8 answers · asked by w00189wr 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother started going out with this girl he met off of myspace will they went out for 3 months and i think she cheated on him and she is insane anyhow i added her on a fake myspace i made up cause some how i knew she was talking bad about my bro and she wrote a whole blog about how mch she hated him anyhows she keeps talking about how she stalks him and eggig our house and they been over for 4 months and now she has it all over her myspace how she misses him and loves him now i kinda feel like the stalker?

2007-11-01 14:50:56 · 2 answers · asked by Alysia 2 in Family