I met my BF on blackgirlsconnect several months ago, and he said that he loves me and wanna marry me, i love him too, but i know so many girls around him like him very much, and even some are crazy, i wonder should i accept his proposal or not, why he is so excellent!
2007-11-01 15:17:21 · 12 answers · asked by BB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a really tough question. But i tell ya, if he really wants you make him wait a while. If he truly loves you, he'll wait. If he splits you know he wasn't the right person.
2007-11-01 15:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by lordofcheeze2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People on line have a tendency to present themselves in their best light. It's difficult to take them too seriously. I would suggest that you try and meet him in person, so you can get a better idea of his character. After all, why would you marry someone you've never even met? Get to know him first, and then you can decide if he's the one and only. But be careful. Meet him in a public place, rather than a secluded area. And provide your own transportation so you can make a quit exit if he turns out to be Mr. Wrong.
2007-11-01 15:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few months isn't very long to make a decision about jumping into a lifelong marriage. It sounds to me that you have doubt or trust issues with your BF. Why are you concerned that other girls are interested in him? Has he ever given you any reason to think he might be interested in other girls. Explore your relationship with your BF before sign a paper. Wish you well.
2007-11-01 15:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by carmella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! What makes him so excellent? Do you want to marry him? Those are two questions that you have to answer for yourself. In addition, why do these other girls like him so much, is it because of what makes him so excellent or because he is leading them on?
I think if you answer those questions for yourself you will be able to answer your question about his sincerity and listen to your instincts, you know best!
2007-11-01 15:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by diversifiedlifestyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girlfriend its time to sit back and watch him carefully. if i was you id say no we need more time as its only been a few months. And watch his body reachion when around other females if there is a lot of touching his a cheat but if his able to just talk you have a good man. ive learnt this through experience
2007-11-01 15:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by crazy4hsv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he given you any reason not to trust him? You should listen to your gut or instincts, what do they tell you about him?
Should you marry him, are you in love with him? If you not, then the answer is pretty obvious right?
2007-11-01 15:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by DV_ous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your really in love with him, you would not doubt how he feels, just listen to him you will know.
2007-11-01 15:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by they call me ma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private detective to follow him around....
2007-11-01 15:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok black people are tricky u gotta watch out....my advice to u is to ask him if he wants u to make dinner for him.....analyze his face expressions and what he says and if he accepts it or not.......it works....
2007-11-01 15:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell...dont rush into anything quite yet...you have to watch his actions and in time you will see who he truly is
2007-11-01 15:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋