my friend is on the phone with me crying and complaining cuz her boyfriend broke up with her and i dont know what to tell her need help now!!!!!!!!
2007-11-01 15:32:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Best thing to do is just be there for her.
she just needs a shoulder to cry on.
After the crying is done then you can tell her that there is plenty of fish in the sea. If it was meant to be it would have been so and through perseverance she will find her true love.
2007-11-01 15:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her do the talking. She needs to vent and let it out of her system. I would refrain from giving her advice, unless she asks you for it. Right now, she needs a sympathetic ear and a shoulder to cry on. Let her know that you're there for her. That's about all you can do. The rest is up to her and her boyfriend.
2007-11-01 22:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to her cry... that is what will get her over this... She's in sad stage, then she'll go through anger, and denial, and then finally go to sleep from exhaustion.
I remember that when I was young... heartbroken... thought I'd die.... but we don't..
Just listen to her... you can't tell her anything that won't add to what she's feeling...
You are being a good friend..
2007-11-01 22:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that her boyfriend is not worth her time. she may luv him but she needs to accept that hes gone and start flirting with someone else
2007-11-01 22:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Beckley B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(hope im not too late)
start making fun of the guy, saying hes a loser and shes too good for him anyway. make some inside jokes and she'll laugh instead of cry.
2007-11-01 22:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that the two of you should get together tomorrow and have a "dog fest". It always helped me. Seems to help my daughter too....
2007-11-01 22:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by beanodom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to find someone better
2007-11-01 22:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just wants u to listen....tell her if you have to that it will all work out in the long run...........don't trash the guy.she might end up with him again
2007-11-01 22:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by richard t 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋