I asked the guy I like if he wanted to watch a movie tonight, and he agreed to. But he didn't say if he was going to call me, I assumed he would because he did last time. But he didn't actually SAY this time that he would call. I am scared to call because I don't know if really wants to watch the movie and I don't want to sound desperate by asking him, then calling him about it later. What should I do?
2007-11-01 15:02:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I wait for him to call? I'm so confused.
2007-11-01 15:05:07 · update #1
if you think he likes you then call him but the more you think about it then the less likely your going to call him.
2007-11-01 15:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you asked him and he said yes, you should call him. I mean, he did agree to watch it so obviously he doesn't mind going, or else he would have made up an excuse. Just call him like an hour or so set a time and place to meet, or if he wants to get a bite to eat before the movie, he won't think you're desperate. Or maybe just even text him like an hour or so and ask him if he's still coming.
2007-11-01 15:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lattie86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, wait a bit and if he doesnt call, maybe you should. But just say something like "Hey, just wondering if you still wanted to see that movie tonight, its ok if you have other plans" something like that. That way you wont sound desperate. I mean, that way your not wasting your time waiting for ever when you could be doing something else.
2007-11-01 15:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by ななかღKYO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just call him anyway. To find out plans about the movie. Call him up and just be like, are you still coming? If so I can have everything set up. Food, movie, etc..
Its not being desperate, its just double checking plans. Nothing bad really.
2007-11-01 15:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by watchout_k1lla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you set up a time to meet, or is he just going to drop in on you? If you haven't made a definite date, just call and say:
"Hi. Just checking to see if we're still on tonight for the movie, and was wondering what time we're meeting?" At least that's better than sitting and staring at the clock, and wondering if he shows up or not....Good luck!
2007-11-01 15:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him instead wait for him to call . If you don't hear from him it is probably because you got your lines crossed. and both will be on the same page next time around. And you will never have to worry about a mix up again. call and you will always be wondering if you are making him feel like your needy. deep breaths now!!
2007-11-01 15:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like it when girls call. it's not just the guy's job. and when you call him be cool with it. be like hey i remember us talking about watching a movie. are we still up for it? and if he sounds enthusiastic then that means he really wants to but if he's like um i don't know ill have to ask my parents or um hold on can i call you back. then that's probably a no. so just go with the flow
2007-11-01 15:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by randakels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait until maybe an hour before the movie starts. If he hasn't called you by then, give him a call. Maybe he thinks since you initiated the "date" that you should call him?
2007-11-01 15:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mmerobin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe think of an excuse for calling that has the movies involved with it.. Like if he has any candy he's wants to bring, so you can know whether or not to bring a big bag to sneak it in. Or whether you should buy them on fandango... or just what time its at if you haven't thought of that already... I don't know your whole situation, but just brainstorm... you'll think of something.. :)
2007-11-01 15:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by lalaqwerqrewrwe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wing it. If he shows, that is good. If he dosen't, that is OK. Don't worry about being to desperate if you haven't been calling him alot. Or just call and say......"The movie starts at 7:30, and chips and soda will we be available" That is all. NOW ...Does that sound desparate???? Good luck. I want to hear what happens.
2007-11-01 15:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just call him and say "what time were we going to watch the movie."
2007-11-01 15:05:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋