I'm expecting my first child any day now and as my husband works away my mother has come to say with me. Unfortunately she's driving me crazy. Last time she stayed with us she destroyed my kitchen, this time it was the carpet in the living area. It's covered under our insurance, but I'm now left with a bare cement floor which I'm told wont be fixed for at least 6 weeks. I'm scared about what she's going to do next. I've asked her to leave once already telling her she was putting me under a bit of extra stress, but she started crying and made me feel like a monster. I don't know how to get her to go but she's got to go. I can't watch her 24/7, I'm too tired.
2007-11-01 15:08:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You and your unborn child's safety and health comes first. Tell her she has a certain amount of days to leave, or you will be forced to call the cops because the stress is damaging you and your unborn child.
2007-11-01 15:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of it would probably be the verify that has the backside earnings that stayed at abode to advance the toddlers! Which in maximum families it may be the mummy! some couples nevertheless won't be in a position to arise with the money for to do this even with the undeniable fact that whether they have been given a "extensive tax credit." i'm fortunate sufficient that my better half earns greater beneficial than sufficient so i will stay at abode - i visit be getting Maternity pay from my artwork for 9 months and then I plan to stay at abode for yet another 3 months and then pass back to artwork area time (in basic terms some hours each and every week) - As i think of this could help as going back to artwork after been a stay at abode mom for 5 years could be stressful going - so i think of it may be greater beneficial to proceed working some hours each and every week. My baby would be at my mothers or my companions mothers on an identical time as i'm working so i does not would desire to pay for childcare like maximum folk!
2016-11-10 00:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her crying like that sure pushed your guilt buttons didn't it?!
Look, it's your house, it's your time with the baby comming. YOU KNOW BEST!
If she's going to do more harm than good by being there then send her packing, and put the guilt up on a shelf somewhere until after the baby's born and the carpet gets replaced.
I have to admit though, I am having a little trouble understanding your not wanting mom around. Most new mothers to be want their moms there with them.
But if you are sure, then DO IT!
2007-11-01 15:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think that your mom probably doesn't feel comfortable and really wants to be there for this baby :) It's a very special time. Maybe you can have a heart to heart with her and let her know that you need certain things from her and tell her what those things are. I bet she jumps on it :)
2007-11-01 15:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Primrose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your brothers has got mother tell her to leave with them at least 1 month with each of them this is a good idea i think
1 month with each or your brother and also with you
it's up to you and your brother that how many days will you and your brother choose deside it and then all of you and your brothers set to gether and tell her what to do and also tell her about her living with each of her sons and doughter and also tell her to dont distroy any thing in my home but a little bit pullity i mean she dont have to be upset but it's up to your guy do you want to upset her or not it actually dont belongs to me but if you dont have any brother tell to your mother to dont distroy any thing at my home but let her to leave with you caz she also helped with you to grow up when you were a child it's it i told you what to do and i think this is the best way of solving it.
2007-11-01 15:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did this for you at one time.
2007-11-01 15:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by that hot chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww she just wants to be there and help you! Is she accident prone?? Sadly you are going to have to live with this - she is desparate to have her grandchild born and to be with you, her beloved daughter, when it happens. Try and relax and go with the flow! Ohhh and jump up and down and scream at your insurers - 6 weeks is totally unreasonable!
2007-11-01 15:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to leave now if she really cares about you tell her that is bad for your baby and you cant handle so much stress with the baby she will understand ...trust me mother always understand well some anways
*good luck
2007-11-01 15:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by y dont u answer my quest. nomore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋