about 2 to 3 weeks ago i posted a question about a girl i like and then a few days later that she asked my friend out. Now I have another friend who is a girl and dosent have so much in common but we get along great and she says she likes me not because im cool or not cool but because of my personality and she dosent want me to change and i think she loves me. BUT the girl that i have had a crush on for awhile wants to go out with me now after she went out with my best friend and didnt like him... WHAT should i do and should i ask the girl ive had a crush on or a girl who has a crush on me...
please SAVE ME
S.O.S. SAVE ME :(
2007-11-01 15:04:36 · 25 answers · asked by Caboose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simple {relax} the one u feel the best about go with but make sure she is the one u know u can have fun with and i say the other girl because u don't want to clash with Ur best friend over a girl that might not work out.....{if that was the case then u shouldn't be friends with the guy and that would be something u can use against him....but that's not the case SO the girl who likes Ur personality is the best..in my opinion
2007-11-01 15:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask to be saved, so I will try to do that, and I hope you like the cure that I prescribe for you.My advise is to date neither one of them. It is clear that you are not ready for a one-on -one relationship or don't know the meaning of the term relationship and what it entails.Just 2-3 weeks ago, you had a hot crush on a girl who then decides to date a friend of yours. Now you want to know if you should date another girl who has a crush on you though you don't like her like that. Feelings can not be turned on and off at will and since it appears you are not thinking of the second girls feelings( remember how you felt about the first girl and the impact when she did not return your crush)why would you encourage her by going out with her under those circumstances. Take some time out by yourself to figure out who you are and what you want in a relationship. Once you do that , it will be much easier for you to avoid these types of complications. I hope for the best for you if you truly want the help you say you want.
2007-11-01 15:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 03:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by tews 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the 1st girl doesnt sound like she knows what she wants. the 2nd one sounds oh so much more serious. why would she ask ur friend out if she didnt like him in the first place? and then a few days later she quickly wants someone else?not very serious...kinda weird...you sound more deserving than that....
2007-11-01 15:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go with the person that has a crush on you. Less pressure. If things don't work out get with the other one. Best of luck ;)
2007-11-01 15:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the girl that likes you. I'd never go out with a friend's ex and if she broke up with him so quickly, then that says something about her. I think the girl that likes you is very sincere and that she will never cheat on you or break up with you. Just my opinion. Good Luck!
2007-11-01 15:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the new girl a try and if it doesnt work out go to the crush, becuz ull always like her anyways. and at least the new girl wont be crushed. u dont want to do what she witnessed and u want to kinda make the crush wait if that makes sense/
2007-11-01 15:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl u have had a crush on will tear up ur relationship with ur best friend and this new girl sounds realy nice thats the kind of girl i have and its working GREAT personality is what counts
2007-11-01 15:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Jesse M i tells the truth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask the girl that has a crush on you if you realy do like her.. the girl you have a crush on realy liked you that much?? then she would have asked u before your best mate.... what do you think?? do you think you could love the girl that has the crush on you??? if so id say her... the other one sounds as if she dont know what she wants bro...
2007-11-01 15:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Robert C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what wrong with the girl that like you .you are not that old
and with time you will find out that you may have lots of thing in common .give your self time with this relationship don't run after two rabbits at the same time you will loose both.the other girl may not like you need-er after she know you a little she will do the same to you dump you
2007-11-01 15:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by jepeutpas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋