lied about my age..?

Question

I went to a concert and while i was in the mosh,i met this guy, who was super cute & was helping me when i was getting thrown around. im 14 & in 8th grade but i said i was in 10th.. (he`s in 11th) he asked for my number & we talk on the phone all the time. & were hoping to hangout soon? should i tell him? ADVICE PLEASE :]

btw ,
i really didnt think he was gna ask for my #,( thats why i said i was older) bc earlier i saw him walking with a few other girls, but later i found out they were his sisters (haha) i`m afraid he`ll think im a kid, but im really mature & dont look my age at all

Answer 1

Honestly, you shouldn't have lied in the first place---and you probably know that.

You need to tell him. Eventually, he's going to find out--you know that, right? The sooner you tell him, the better. Talk to him and apologize for lying. You can explain why you lied, but don't make excuses. Let him know that you wanted to come clean---if he's a guy that values honesty, he may give you a second chance. But frankly, he's bound to be upset that you lied to him and he might not be able to adjust to the three year age difference. I hope it works out for you.

Always remember, relationships are built on trust.

Answer 2

Honestly i think you should really tell him... but dont make it all crazy just be like...look i'm sorry i lied i didnt think we were going to continue talking but i gotta tell you the truth about something and just do it...

Answer 3

You're only 14, just tell him before it's too late/-before you both end up in bed together, cause if he's 18, he's busted for rape! (are you ready to get pregnant at your age?-what if it happens?)

Answer 4

if u plan on going further into a relationship with this guy, then ull have to tell him sooner, and if he really likes you, age wont matter to him. but u cant keep it secret 4ever.