he knows im still a virgen we love each other very much but he started talking about it he has expierence and oviously i dont he has two kids i feel like sometimes he wants to go at me but i dunno if i should do you think if i back off he will go to his ex?
2007-11-01 20:57:33 · 13 answers · asked by my 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if ur not ready dont do it.. if he cant respect that get rid of him dont let him push u into something u dont want to do ...and chances are if he already has 2 kids he probably has baby momma drama u should get out ...
2007-11-01 21:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by TotallyAwesomeChic 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I always wonder sometimes too. If I back off and tell him no will he leave me and go for someone who pleases him. But then I think if I give it up he'll treat me he'll assholeish.
Well, I had sex before with my ex boyfriend we were each others firsts but when i gave it up, it alll changed. He was more asshole, brave & that's when he started cheating. When you give a guy your pussy it changes everything. Once you have sex you NEVER go back to holding hands they will always expect it after you give it up.
What I say is, don't give it up unless you really want too. If youre not ready and he loves you he should respect your choices. Since he talks to you about it, I'm sure he wants it but just wait until your ready. Dont give it up cus you think hell leave you.
Take care girly, good luck
2007-11-02 04:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very confusing term and very often it gets misunderstood vis-a-vis lust, which is an animal instinct, entertained by many of us humans too.
Virginity is a very hard kept treasure. Keep it for a little while more, till you find your suitable life partner, be it a husband or Boy friend!
Once you forsake it, never can it be regained. So forbearance for a little while more will be very highly rewarding, I presume.
And on your part, it is now or never! So keep the Treasure!!
2007-11-02 05:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by baask o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow your situation sounds like one i had awhile back. He also had 2 kids, and i was ( and sitll am ) a virgin. He kept talking about kids, marriage, and sex to me. I kept questioning all of it...then i went to visit my family instead of visiting him...come to find out he was cheating on me..and he broke up with me and a week later..married that chick he cheated on me with. At first i was upset, but i got over it. I am glad im a still a virgin.
Just remember, NO ONE should pressure you into having sex, NO matter how much you love him or he loves you. Its your body and your gift to give...choose wisely!
2007-11-02 04:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that he wants to have sex with you. I think it's wonderful that you are still a virgin. It is appropriate to wait until marriage. You should be with a boy who is willing to respect you enough to wait until marriage. If your current boyfriend doesn't respect you that much, it's an indication that he doesn't really love you because he wants to use you.
2007-11-02 04:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he a divorcee?
If he has two kids its obvious he is expierenced.
If you are Virgin not Vir gen I guess, why are you togather.
Why are you afraid of lossing him. Cheer up sex is good.
but try to have with some one who is Virgin two, at least
You will have no regrets of being the 2ND ... 3rd.. etc...
2007-11-02 04:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh honey wait till your ready, if he cant wait for you then hes not the one go find somesome in the sam situation, so when yall r ready yall will both share the same experience
2007-11-02 04:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by mudd cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence!
2007-11-02 04:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
since you are a virgin, YOU WAIT! If he goes back to his ex he does not love you the way YOU need to be loved. you just wait until your ready, okay! YOur worth it!
2007-11-02 04:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by nancy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should be ready
yes its really really good if ur still a virgin before marriage
but sometimes you dont have to
but if u really dont want to, its ok
and if he doesnt respect you for that
just dump him
not worth ur time
2007-11-02 04:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋