Do men start relationships soon after a seperation or divorce becuase they are litterly lonely? I believe men are only starting another relationship becuase they need sex and It is not necessaryly a commited one. What do you think?
2007-11-01 20:04:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its difficult for men to stay alone, as they are not mentally stronger than woman and they feel isolated if they are alone. this is the reason for them to start immediately new relationship.
2007-11-01 20:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by kamal m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been divorced 15 years and only had 3 relationships in all that time and have been completely alone and celibate for the last 4 years so not ALL men do but yes it gets really lonely but I have had back surgeries and draw disability so I can't work,therefore I have absolutely nothing to offer a woman since the most important thing to a woman is security.Good luck.
2007-11-01 21:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tiger by the Tail is right, this is going from one rebound to another. I think that you still have zero self-esteem, and that what you are CONFUSING with "self-esteem" in your work situation is that people are paying attention to you and you feel good about that after a period of isolation with a young child, and the demands that a marriage and young child put on you. Now you are out! having fun! playing at being an independent person! I think that you SORT of have a clue that your feelings are kind of squishy and unreliable - but I honestly don't think that you are mature enough to make a decision about what color socks to wear tomorrow, let alone to pick yet another "right and natural" relationship that is (just like your current marriage) based on whatever you feel like you need for the next five minutes. I am guessing that you think the True Love is all about the high that you first feel when you fall in Lurrrve. A mature relationship - especially if there is a kid involved - isn't like that. But I'm thinking you don't want to hear that. Your husband has the right idea. But I don't think you are mature enough to be able to work it through, because you are fixated on the Other Guy and like the thrill of the New Romance. Therefore, I think you will only find happiness for six to nine month periods at a time - that's about the amount of time it takes for the initial thrill to wear off. But it's okay - there will be another guy. And another. And another. Please get counseling for yourself. I don't mean to sound harsh, but you have an obligation to yourself and your kid and your husband. And I don't think you are looking to hear about "obligation".
2016-04-02 00:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people can't deal with being alone. If you check out the backgrounds of all people, they are either always in a relationship that is long term and then another and another. Or they are single for such a long time some people could never imagine. Some people can't be alone. It's not sex, it's just the fear of being ALONE.
2007-11-01 20:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better than starting one before divorcing/separating. Not all men jump straight back in. I waited over 2 years. In my experience, it is women who do, just that.
2007-11-01 20:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't, I waited 5 years before I started another relationship.
2007-11-01 20:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on the man men differ in that way all arent the same in rushing into a commitment once out of one. my opion?
2007-11-01 20:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most the time i think they just think they need a women in there life all the time and if it isn't you it will be someone else. its not just divorces widowed men do it too.. i think they just dont want to be alone.
2007-11-01 20:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Couple sex vs. Masturbation
Kind of a no brainer.
2007-11-01 20:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by okieangler 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do women wait so long to move on?
2007-11-01 23:49:50 · answer #10 · answered by snowyniner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋