my single aunt has two kids: a boy and a girl. the girl is 19 and the boy is 13. she is nice to the boy but treats the girl like she didn't want her to begin with. my aunt even said it to her face. please dont say that the girl should move out because we're asian and it cant be like that. what she my dad (which is her older brother) do? if he scolds my aunt, she'll just turn around and treat my cousin bad. help!!!
2007-11-01 13:52:13 · 7 answers · asked by Xuan T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i kind of feel the same way. its not that bad. but i feel liek my parents are harsher on me than my two sisters...and i know everyone always says talk to themm....they will udnerstand...tehy are family! i know thats not all families are like that. some kids dotn feel comfortable saying stuff like that too their parents becasue its not how tehy are. if its like that for her, i think she should stay the same...becuse family should except u for who u are. also she has u to be there for her. and if she is comfortable tellign her problems, tell her to let her mother know how she is feelingg. good luck!
2007-11-01 14:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by dreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin should talk to your aunt because that isnt right for your aunt to treat her like that. I have a friend who moved out of her house today because her adopted mom treated her the exact same way. If it gets any worse maybe your cousin should consider moving out because thats verbal abuse!!!
2007-11-01 21:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can she come and stay with you and your family? She wouldn't be moving out on her own and would still be with the family. I'm not familiar with Asian custom, but wouldn't that be acceptable?
2007-11-01 21:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dustelightful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your cousin doesnt want to take the abuse she can call the police or move out , other than that theres nothing she can do .
2007-11-01 20:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ஐDanielleஐ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in the US, she can move out if she wants. The risk is she could be disowned, but maybe your dad can take her in?
2007-11-01 21:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u go to the welfare office and ask their advice,
I'm sure they will help u...........
its only an advice
2007-11-01 23:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by 1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This so bad. I don't know what to do. Please try to get her help ..
2007-11-01 21:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋