guys what do you think of women who agrees to have sex on first dates or meetings?
2007-11-01 22:08:18 · 21 answers · asked by charlotte 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not "looks" cheap. "Is" cheap. and easy. and probably diseased.
2007-11-01 22:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by pepper 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I would start to question who this person is. If I truly just met this person (as in no prior friendship), I would be a little scared by this. Probably the first thing that would go through my head is "How many guys has she been with if she is this willing?" and then the follow-up question, "What interesting infection will I get from this experience?" I believe sex is something that should naturally feel right after you've been seeing someone for awhile. I may be young, but I do know that there is a connection you will feel with a person when it is the right time. Sex on first date = bad idea. That usually means two horny people met up somewhere and decided to have a little fling. Having a little fling with someone is pointless to me and really to anybody. A relationship is what people should strive for, not the sex that comes with it.
2007-11-01 22:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girls responses are far more harsh than the mens! Hmmmm... I think a lot has to do with approach, age, circumstances.... I went with a guy first date, (against the little voice in my head...) and a year later I'm still with him, its was mutual and still is... so a lot of things have to be considered. After all, as long as its healthy, safe and your both consenting adults, I don't think stigmas and 'looking cheap' comes into it. Its about feeling good. Men can get away with this unfortunately - not have to deal with being considered cheap - but that's society for you. They call it 'scoring' 'getting lucky', which in my opinion, is not fair. Our desires and needs are just the same, so why?
2007-11-01 22:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by dunwerse 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Absolutely. My man said any girl he ever slept with on the first date he looked at like a cheap easy girl.
Make em wait.
Its so worth it.
2007-11-01 22:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by 1110011100 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how it happens. Most times it would be cheap. But if you spent a long time together (more than a few hours at a bar) sometimes you really can bond, and it wouldn't be cheap. Or if you've known each other a long time before your first date.
2007-11-01 22:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by crackbubba 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
The man looks cheap too in that case, surely! If the man wants it then he is making himself just as 'cheap'. Its interesting but some of the blokes are saying 'yes, I'd sh*g her once, then forget her,' etc . Well pardon me for saying so but it looks like the men are the tarty ones!! (And a girl would be mad to agree to it!)
2007-11-01 22:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by tedrfandthedog 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
That is soooo bad!! Think about all those really big easter eggs, and how fine they look and how good you know the're going to taste. Then after days of drooling you go in the shop and find out they are way to expensive......
moral of the story= hold of untill you have the money (knowledge of your partner)
2007-11-01 23:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by stunner 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i just think it takes the fun out of it really, you know alot of it is the stuff leading up to sex really, all the hints and kisses and flirtatious bits you know. I'm not a man but i think it's cheap - make him work for it!!!!
2007-11-01 22:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by LISA B 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Probably, depends on what ya want relationship or shag.. Just be careful when your on a mission for the latter
2007-11-01 22:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by K J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it does you cant possibly know a person in such a short time or trust them your obviously worried about this or you wouldnt have asked take your time
2007-11-01 22:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by andy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the individual. To me, if the girl doesn't hesitate, the guy may think she slept around.
2007-11-01 22:13:36 · answer #11 · answered by enna 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋