hye...I need your opinion for my situation.
I 24 years old. I already workind & same time also further my study.
I have know my boyfriend around 5 to 6 years & we already
couple around 1 years. I love my boyfriend too much. I don't care
he is a disable person(blemish on his leg) but he can walk but not too
fast & sometime he using the chair(special chair for disable or blemish person)
He working. The problem is my father can accept his & bless our relation
but when i talk i & his want
marriage, my father change to be a lawyer which issue many question to me.
I know my father love me & I not blame him because I understand. My father
also worried if I marriage, I haven't help family anymore.But I & my boyfriend already discuss about this
& he not block / obtacle if i want to support family. And I told my father but he not too much confident.
Can you all give me opinion what's the best for I make my father agree
to me marriage..I really need help
2007-11-01 21:58:32 · 5 answers · asked by akilq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should think ur self in ur father situation. As a parent he always want the best for u and ur future. he adore u and scared if this man is not the one for u. It a normal things right? Well everything is up to u but my opinion is that u complete ur study first bcoz it more important. In same time try to bring him meet your father and ur family as often as u can. This is to built up close relationships between them and who knows slowly ur father can see goodness inside him and agreed that he's the right one for u. You still young and still have time to make a right decision for ur live. Remember that family blessing is important in marriage as it will bring extra happiness....All the best 4 u in future.:-)
2007-11-01 22:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by fz7481 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend to be with someone else who is mean and hits you. Then your father will appreciate your boyfriend. It shouldn't be about a disability but how he treats you and if he makes you happy.
2007-11-01 22:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you decision is base on objective reasoning the let your father see your reasons for what you want but if it is pure emmotion then there is a need to listen to reason. for every decision taking on emmotion will always have something wrong with it in the end.
2007-11-01 22:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lt. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your father how he would feel if he was disabled and no one loved him because of it.
2007-11-01 22:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love him, however he is, whatever he does, the bottomline is you love him, just tell that to your dad, tell him, i can't live without him,and if i don't marry him, i am not going to be happy, so , i think that he will ubderstand
2007-11-01 22:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by DBG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋