Right off I’m going to let you all know I am loosing sleep over this (why I’m up at 3:30) so please take this seriously...
I have been dating this girl for only a week, she’s nice cute and funny she is the first girl I’ve actually been in love with, I’ve had other relationships but they were never as serious... But on Halloween I was invited to go to an all girl (except me) party, now i could never cheat its just not me but me and this girl did a considerable amount of flirting I feel bad because I haven’t even told her I’m taken but I’m very attracted to her, she is EXACTLY my type and i cant stop thinking about her....
I’m not sure what I should do I feel actual LOVE for them both but I just cant say. I just want some advice from a third party here.....
2007-11-01 22:53:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give yourself ample time to decide. It happens sometimes because we tend to compare others to our present gf. You have to choose one.
Follow what your heart says.
Good luck mate.
2007-11-01 23:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all I can give an opinion is refresh your mind. Calm your mind and think about it very carefully. If you're in love with the girl you're dating and with the flirty girl, you have to look on their attitudes. You have to know which girl she's fit for you...you know what I mean?? Well, you have the same situation as my classmate and it really work when i gave the same advice...so, try it...maybe it'll work...
2007-11-03 06:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Catherine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love with either of them. That is not love dear. If you were in love, you would not have even entertained the idea of the other girl. You need to choose, and that is the bottom line. Don't be dishonest or you will lose both of them.
2007-11-02 05:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be true to your self of what you really feel, because honestly there is no such thing as loving a two person,
but, only your self can really describe and decide of that,
only yourself can tel whom you truly love,
maybe you love the other one and you have the lust for the other one..or maybe you dont love them at all...
right now you are confuse, but come to think of it,
maybe its gods plan, its his way of telling you something,
or should i say, god wants you to realize of something...
be true to your self, examine what you feel,think of it....
and if you've come up for a decision, stand for it..
if you still need advice, here is my email,
thelove_advicer@yahoo.com
2007-11-02 06:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by loveadvicer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one you love, the one who makes you happy.
One thing for sure is that you cant have them both, so you need to choose.
Remember that if you don't you might lose both of them.
2007-11-02 06:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your feelings might be coming from south of your belt. More likely to be lust than love.
2007-11-02 06:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you have to choose one. Look past the physical attraction and you'll know.
2007-11-02 06:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make two girls happy at the same time.. Pick one and move on...
2007-11-02 05:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by [275] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose...make a decision and stick with it...or your going to be hurting people over your selfishness
2007-11-02 05:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋