at other beautiful women and seem to fall in love with them too. He tells me he is falling in love with me, but I'm afraid it's lust, not love. Can I trust that he loves me like he say he do ?
2007-11-01 21:57:28 · 19 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its not Love it might be an infatuation with your physical appearance(as i will avoid a strong word as lust) but has nothing to do with your personality attributes. Stable and sustainable relationships are based upon understanding eachother, relating to eachother at mental as well as spiritual level. A relationship based upon mere physcial attributes has all the ingredients of failure written all over. Reason being, as the object of relationship (physical appearance in this context) will change so will the relation along with there is always a possibility that if anyone with more luring features will come across there is a strong probability that the focus of desire will shift too...
Instead a relationship based upon mutual understanding and respect for eachother's individuality will always survive the test of time.
Hope this can be of some help.
2007-11-01 22:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by aley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you really did ask him yourself, and he did answer "because you look so pretty" then im afraid its lust dear. maybe the most innocent form but its still lust. don't count on real love coming from that and let him go, probably let him get smacked around by other girls who may have noticed the lust or he has cheated on. just until he straightens out. if you want be a tease while you're at it, up to you. just know that guys who love on lust aren't worth it at all.
2007-11-01 22:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really because you said he falls in love with other women too. If he truly loved you he would not be looking at other women in that way. He would only be looking at you for love. It sounds as if he is not willing to commit yet and since he is only looking at looks as a deciding factor I would question his sincerity. If you ever got married to him and suppose something terrible were to happen like you got burned on your face you would want him to still love you right? Even though you don't look like you did at first. It does not sound as if he is ready for that.
2007-11-01 22:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got been asking myself this as a results of fact i visit in no way have faith a guy. How and what can they do to convince me? i've got not got a clue. human beings can substitute into shell surprising after awhile while it includes have faith. If somebody approached me and asked me this question i could say time. i've got been married 4 cases and single for 3 yrs. in simple terms wait and spot and supply it time and that i will think of you would be fantastic. Your conversing a pair of man or woman who appears like they choose greater love.
2016-11-10 00:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should trust him. He likes you because of your outside but not for who you are. He falls for other beautiful women, so do you think you would have a great life with him?
2007-11-01 22:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's natural for a guy to fall because of looks, new brain science confirms this, but after you have real sex then he is supposed to bond with you, apart from very occasional problems he should be faithful. If you have a full sex life and he is still looking, Uh Uh! A big problem, and by then you'll be hooked!!
2007-11-01 22:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're pretty, you've got to be careful,many guys will chase you just because they like you physically.
In your case, i think that's lust. if he really love you, then he won't looked at another women.
But, if you are also attracted to him, then perhaps you can give him a chance.
2007-11-01 22:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Gustav B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't trust him. that's LUST. you should finda guy who loves you not because of your physical appearance. if you enter into a relationship with this guy, i'm certain he'll just cheat on you and you'll just end up getting hurt.
2007-11-01 22:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by :) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said that you looks beautifull thats why he likes you so baby remember every bedy loves beautifull things.
If u looks beautifull now then you will be same after that also so dont worry he will keep loving you.
2007-11-01 22:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by PRADEEP SERAWAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust
its lust...u said hes like falling "in love" with other "beautiful women" well
i dont thnk he loves you hun.
i dont even think its lust!
hus he fooling?
dump him
2007-11-01 22:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋