Some people tell me to make it as normal as possible, as if i never told her. Confidence or something.
2007-11-01 21:23:25 · 14 answers · asked by Dabidu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to have an "Alpha Male" attitude.
A great example is the "James Bond 007" character.
He's playful/flirty with the ladies,
he's comfortable in his surroundings,
he has an attitude with the ladies as if he's thinking
"Yes, it would be nice to have you with me dear,
but if not, I'm fine with that. There's plenty of
other fish to fry in my frying pan!"
Your attitude is your decision.
No other person can have a negative
hold over you unless you allow it.
Don't play their game.
2007-11-01 21:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by andybosik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your previous relationship with her. Have you two been friends for a long time, or just recent? If you've only gotten to know her because you were interested, and you were rejected, I'd suggest just sort of fading away. Talk to her less and less, until neither of you talk to one another again. If yall have been friends for some time, then just try and make things normal and act funny and cool around her. Perhaps, for her own sake, let her know that you're O.K. with her not being interested back, and you'd like to remain friends (regardless if you're okay with it or not). This will help the girl be more normal around you, and help ease any type of potential awkwardness there could of been.
2007-11-01 21:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ltrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't talk to her because it'll hurt her more. Have some delicadesa or compassion by treating her as if you don't know each other. If time would come that you really need to talk each other, maybe that would be 6 months later after you reject her. If she had a boyfriend now, then it's the best time to be fairly nice friend.
2007-11-01 21:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by lopera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to act confident when you have just been rejected, but that's the only way you can act, unless you want to dodge her every time you see her. Take it as just another experience and move forward.
2007-11-01 21:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by mlvue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to act like it really did not matter if she said yes or no. Even if it did. You will feel better that you did not make a fool out of yourself, and that you made it easier for her too
2007-11-01 21:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mooka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendly
2007-11-01 21:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by NAI 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, confidence! just because you were rejected doesn't mean you can't act naturally around her. you can still continue being friends with each other and pretend that the rejection never occurred. although once in a while, you can feel uneasy around her, just let it go. good luck ;)
2007-11-01 21:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by :) 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
YES ACT AS NORMAL AS YOU CAN. TAKING A REJECTION POORLY INDICATES LOW SELF ESTEEM. PLENTY OTHER WOMEN OUT THERE. THEY ALL WON'T LIKE TO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE WITH YOU. IT'S LIFE.
2007-11-01 21:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being attracted to someone doesn't instantly mean they are attracted to you or ever will be. Move on with your life, it isn't her fault she isn't attracted to you, that's just the way it is. You tried, no guts no glory! Find someone that likes YOU and that you like..
2007-11-01 21:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! act normal. don't let her know that her rejection is bothering you. don't distant yourself from her. who knows, she might develop a feeling for you later on...don't put your hopes up high though..
2007-11-01 21:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋