He told me the reason why he was cheating on me was because I wouldn't perform oral sex on him. I just wasn't comfortable enough to do that.
2007-11-01 21:14:18 · 17 answers · asked by Sassidancer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you shouldn't. his reason for cheating on you is so shallow and superficial. go ahead and find another guy who deserves you more and who'd respect you for your decisions. obviously, he doesn't respect your decision so ditch him. good luck ;)
2007-11-01 21:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you once he will do it again, atleast in my experiences anyhow. And just b/c you don't want to perform oral sex is no reason to go out and cheat if he respected you enough he would understand that you didn't feel comfortable and wouldn't put you in that position again, let alone go out and find so girl to fulfill his need.
Your feelings that you have are something that might always be there, move on with you life, tell him to get lost, and find someone who will respect you enough not to run out and cheat if you don't feel comfortable doing something they want.
2007-11-02 04:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Pit Bull Owned! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied to you cheated on you and then made it your fault! Take him back and spend 24/7/365 on your knees sucking and he will still find a way to cheat.No you did the right thing by dumping this guy now find someone that will love you and respect you for you.I wouldn't date a woman that didn't do all 3 but I would never cheat!That's something that should be talked about before you get very far into a relationship.Good luck.
2007-11-02 04:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Don't even think twice about taking him back. He obviously only wanted you for the sex the first time, you don't think he still does now? There's no good reason to cheat. If he wasn't "satisfied" he should've communicated that...because communication is key in a relationship. He's making up excuses. Don't take him back. He's a pig. Stay away from him.
2007-11-02 04:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have feelings because the two of you are in a comfort zone. Try and go out with your friends and see a movie. If you are alone go for a walk, shopping, take a tour but just get out and get him off of your mind. Never let someone pressure you in to doing something you are not ready for. Remember you have to live with yourself and not him. I believe once a cheater always a cheater!
2007-11-02 04:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by bouschard@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) if he loves you he would not leave you for something sexual he would work through it with you
b) from my experience cheating is the beginning of the end - you can forgive but you cant forget and it will eat away at you. You can get back together but the likelihood of it lasting will be slim.
So ...should you take him back? I say no. You deserve better.
2007-11-02 04:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by heehee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say give him another chance. Becuase everyone deserves a second chance. But he did it becuase no oral. Thats prob the lamest excuses that I have heard for awhile. Better hit the dating scene again. GL next time.
2007-11-02 04:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ross21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one in a sexual relationship should force their partners to do something that they do not like. If they do, they don't have any true feelings for you and are only using you for the sex. Just remember a leopard never changes its spots , as they say.
2007-11-02 04:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! What if you dont do something else he wants? Will this happen again? & besides what kind of reason is that to cheat on some1?
2007-11-02 04:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by caughtup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take him back. There's a high chance that he'll cheat on you again.
2007-11-02 04:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋