if your 12 and very unhappy what do you do?

Answer 1

its not always easy to cope with things even at 12, especially with the world as it is there are so many more pressures on young people. my advise to you wuld be to trust yourself, to speak to someone you feel happy with and can trust, although i'd love to say its best to talk to your parents i know sometimes they can be part of the problem, (this doesn't mean you shouldnt let them be aware of your unhappiness if you can) however as much as some people may think i'm crazy i will just say that you're not alone, there is a God who wants to put his arms around you and keep you safe, who is always there although you can't see Him, try talking to Him aswell if you feel comfortable. anyway i do hope you feel better, i'll keep you in my prayers

Answer 2

Depends on what you're unhappy about. Is it school? Parents? A relationship? Or are you just unhappy about yourself and who you are at this point?

I remember being miserable when I was your age. It feels like the whole world doesn't understand you, and you struggle to find something to make you happy. Sometimes happiness comes, sometimes it doesn't. It's that feeling that you're not normal that's the worst.

hang in there and let me assure you that with time and effort, things do get better. You can't be expected to be happy all the time, but at the same time you don't want to be unhappy, right? So just give it time--I know that may sound cliche, but time really does heal most wounds.

Answer 3

Talk to a mature adult that you trust. More than anything - hang in there. I know it's hard because you don't have as much control over your actions as you would an adult. But soon you'll be 18 and hopefully make wise decisions that won't make you an unhappy 30 year old...

Answer 4

I hope your hair ins't really blue.. Because the very first thing I would do is to dye my hair back to its original color... then I would decide my education needed to be given a huge boost by more study time.. so that when I grow up i could get a fantastic job and maybe do very many things to help other people on the planet!

I would learn that self destructive behavior helps no one.. and doesn't make people like me any better or even make me myself like myself any better. I would find a way to help people less fortunate than I am and do my best at being a great human.

Answer 5

Please talk to your parents and get some help with your doctor, your only 12 you should be enjoying ur life..There are plenty you could be doing now, joining clubs, meeting people etc. You need to know what is making you unhappy and talk about it and hope you can change it
Good Luck x

Answer 6

The choice is entirely yours. Be unhappy if you want to be. What you have just discovered is that only babies are given the specific attention to make them happy. By the time you're eight you are expected to have learned how to be happy and what to do to be happy all by yourself. Its all part of growing up.

Answer 7

take a look and see why you are unhappy and what you can change to make things better. That is all any of can do at any age.

Answer 8

i was 12 and very unhappy, now I am 39 and much better, you will come through it,

Answer 9

Have a long talk with your guidance councilor or health teacher ASAP Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania

Answer 10

i thought being 12 was bad too. but im 14 almost 15 now and trust me it only gets worse you just have to put up with things and don't stress.