Please answer my question
Me and my bf was together for 2years.
we didn't have sex
He asked me many times but I said just wait for the right moment .
Than he was like ok as u wish .
Last month he went to his native country and he had sex twice in there with some porn girl . Whenever I call him he always rude to me and hurt my feeing for couple of days . And yesterday i was so sad and i called him and asked if he want me or not than he said he had sex twice on 30th october and 2november , and i was so crying i couldn't sleep at night . I was crying for him . I really love him and wanted him as my husband but i really can't take him after all this , i really cant stay with him but i really love him and i want him . But after all these i dont feel like to stay together .
What would u do if u were in my place ?
And should i stay with him or just leave him ?
I am so in love with him but I really cant take him again in my life after all this but i really want him and love him
2007-11-05 09:07:54 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs.H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He cheated on you. It's over. You can't trust him. He didn't respect you and your decision to wait, so he won't respect any other opinions that you have. Move on. It's hard, I know that, but you should leave him and find someone who does respect you. This was a conscious decision on his part; he wasn't drunk, he knew what he was doing. He disrespect you and he cheated on you; it's over.
2007-11-05 09:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i was in your shoes, i would rather not accept him as of the moment. He cheated and you not giving him the sexual thing is not an excuse for him to do that. Men are really such a dog at times. Let him do his thing with that porn girl, it will not last. As of the moment just make yourself busy. You can cry but then dont let him ruin what you have in life.
2007-11-05 09:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by des 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on one hand you could be mad and leave him, tell him he messed up and lost out of a good thing........ But on the other hand you could still be mad and try to take into consideration that he was honest with you, let him know that your very upset and that he hurt you, and let him know that it will be very hard for you to trust him again but that you still love him and want to make things work. Maybe you should consider having sex with him, he may have just been urning for it so bad that he couldnt hold back much longer. Do whats in your heart.
2007-11-05 09:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by Destiney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you. Do you really love him that much? that you'd be willing to give up your potential future happiness for this man? he obviously didn't care for your feelings when he was away. It might seem like you're so in love now, but maybe you're just obsessed or feel really secure with him. I think it's time to move on. There are more fish in the sea, more pebbles on the shore. Find someone who'll take good care of you.
2007-11-05 09:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A situation like that happened to me. I was so pissed and mad cause he was like i love u and whatever and cheated. I listened to Beyonce Irreplaceable, Keysha Cole let it go, and Carrie Underwood before he cheats. That helped me a lot b/c that night i might have went to jail. I hope u do whats best for you. :)
2007-11-05 09:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by The Prettiest♪ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? He cheated on you. HE SLEPT WITH SOMEONE ELSE MULTIPLE TIMES. As the book says, "He's just not that into you." Dump him now.
2007-11-05 09:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him and forget about him-------once a cheater always a cheater. u need someone that treats u right and doesnt cheat on you
2007-11-05 09:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look. just let him go. He wasn't the right one.
2007-11-05 09:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋