i thought he was the love of my life, i have a daughter with him, he cheated on me and then she got pregnant he left me and got her to tell me, she sends me threatening texts etc all the time, he left her saying he loved me and wanted to be with me. things were fine for a couple months then he was sneaking off hiding his mobile, and on saturday nite he got very drunk and abusive towards me and threatened me with a carving knife, the police removed him. he is texting me saying he loves me and wants to be with me, but i know he has gone back to the other one who will have had the baby by now. what do i do please need help?
2007-11-05 08:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by JULIA N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stay away from him , because do you think he will truley change ? He is a abusive person and he needs help, guys like him are so dangerous even though he might love you it's not worth the chance you would be taking to let him back in your life .
This is how woman end up being killed by their boyfriends and husbands. He is cheating on you and pulled a weapon on you how much more do you need to go through before you leave his crazy butt .
For the sake of your child leave , find someone who is sweet caring and STABLE!!!!!You must be strong any one who endagers you or your child has to go seek help ,call the police and have a restraing order put against him .
You dont deserve to be mis treated like this by him get out now while you can before it's too late .
2007-11-05 09:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by ted75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even asking this on here... He obviously doesnt' give a s**t, not surpriseing sounds like you have no self respect... show some back bone, if you stay with this cretin it's not an 'if' it's a 'when'..
If you are worried about being on your own I suggest you stop being so selfish and think of your child. Get your life sorted out, dump him, get yourself a facial, change your hair, loose some weight, buy some decent clothes, get trained, read some Germaine Greer and take up some new courses get a new job and find yourself a real man who doesn't have to threaten women to make himself feel like an Alpha Male.
I hope you don't let your child become a statistic. Disgusting you even had to ask such a dumbass questions like whether or not to stay with someone who cheats on you.
Think your kid's going to want to be there for you when you need her when your older? I hope she fixes your stanner stairlift when your old so it fries you...
Maybe I'm just being extreme, perhaps you are on drugs or something or so self indulgent you worry you wont find anyone else.
Skuzzy mothers like you make me sick. Always about your feelings...grow up, this isn't a soap opera...this is your life now..it sounds crap..take some responsibility for yourself and your daughter.
2007-11-05 09:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by mellow yellow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you must still love him, thats why you're asking the question of what to do, but you need to leave him and ignore his texts/ calls for at least a week. Give yourself space.
My yhusband cheated when I had a daughter who was 2 yers old. He cannot have both of you. Also , if he has done it this time he will do it again, if not with you then he will cheat on someone else. Ignore him now whilst you still have time in your life to find someone else.You need to be free emotionally of him before you can start again. I hope this has helped?
2007-11-05 09:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You exorcise him from your life like the evil monster he really is; do you want to be threatened with a knife? Do you want your child hurt or worse? He is a liar, a cheat and violent and dangerous; a very bad recipe for a child or you to be involved with. Count your blessings he is out of your life and keep it that way, if not for you, for the well being and safety of your child.
2007-11-05 08:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your better off without him! let her have him cos he'll do the same thing to her. dont forgive him after what he has put you through! move on and let him behind you, you'll defently deserve better then that. hope it works out for you.
2007-11-05 09:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no its a hard thing but dump him he does not really care about you or he would not of done wot he has .find yourself a better life with out him
2007-11-05 09:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by skips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
2007-11-05 09:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by evamariehoople 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby...leave him alone before he kills you
2007-11-05 09:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋