There is this guy I like...?

Question

There is this guy I like and I thought he liked me too. Before it seemed like he wanted to get to know me more, but now he doesn't talk to me as much. I don't know if it's because he never did like me or if he is giving up because he doesn't think I like him. Anyways though I really like him, and I want to know if he does/did like me or if he likes someone else. I don't really want to ask him myself because it would make things between us very akward. I don't want him to know I like him unless I know he likes me back. How should I go about finding out if he likes me or who he likes?

Answer 1

I'd ask him yourself, or tell him that you like him. If he isn't talking to you much right now then there isn't much that will change if he doesn't like you, right? But if he does like you, then you could start dating each other.

Answer 2

i had the same problem before but it didn't turn out too good 4 me. he ended up getting a girlfriend and stuff. so now i don't like him anymore. but don't worry. i think u should just ask urself or get familiar with the most recent gossip. or if u just want to avoid the whole getting up in his face thing, then u could just have a friend ask the guy. but not someone that's ur BEST FRIEND because that guy will just know that u asked ur best friend to ask unless he's really oblivious. so get a friend that u know doesn't like him as well, and just get that friend to ask him 4 u and have the friend report back to u. or if u have a guyfriend that u can trust and that's pretty good friends with the guy u like, u can have him ask. ~*I WISH U A TON OF LUCK WITH THIS PREDICAMENT!!!!*~

Answer 3

You should ask him out to do something. Nothing serious, just something kind of normal. You could go pick something up with him, or help him with homework. Just get to where it's you two and see how it goes. You can generally tell how he feels then. If he seems to be avoiding you, ask him calmly about it. If he doesn't, try to strike up more interesting conversations. Don't get depressed if it doesn't seem like he's into you, there are always more men out there.

Also, don't fear him thinking you're wierd for liking him. Generally speaking, unless he gets every woman he comes across, he'll most definately be flattered you think he's attractive.

You might also want to try complimenting him, or asking for his opinion on different subjects.

Answer 4

I was in the same rut back when I was crushing on my first boyfriend. I kept my mouth shut about it for a loooong time because he never talked to me much in the first place so i thought that he didn't like me.
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What i did about it was I got his email address and then his IM when i got it and became friends with him and got used to him. Of course, i was so nervous about telling him that i liked him that I got my friend to ask him for me if he liked me because, like you, i didn't wanna say anything unless i was sure that he liked me back.
He said yes to her, and then as soon as my friend left he told me that she asked him that and asked me if I asked her to ask him if he liked me. lol. So.. he caught me lol.
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It worked out very nicely, but this time, for my next boyfriend, i'm just gonna ask him myself because I'm tired of the games where you "make the boy ask you out because yer scared". Those are fine, just not my style. If i can ever meet another decent guy (lol), I'll be sure to do as before: get his IM/phone number/email, and start talking to him and getting used to him, then I'll ask him to go somewhere with me and there I will ASK him if he likes me. (See, there's a BIG difference between TELLING a guy you like him and ASKING him. If you TELL him (ex. "Hey, i really really like you.") this implies that he doesn't have a choice but to like you back or feel like a jerk. If you ASK him then he think for a bit and then he'll give you his answer without feeling bad about it. That way all will be less awkward in the end).
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Sorry my answer was so long lol, but i hope it helped!

Answer 5

God. Girl the best advice I can give you is get the courage and ask him yourself. Yes you will feel awkard asking, but it is better to ask him than have someone else do it for ya. The only thing that can happen is he could up saying no he doesn't like you.

Answer 6

You can't do this through telepathy. You're just going to have to talk to him about it. It will not be the end of the world if he doesn't like you. And you'll feel better once you've broached the subject because at least you'll know, and you won't have that constant, nagging curiosity dragging you down.

Answer 7

open your little mouth and go up to him or ask one of your freinds to ask him for you . do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!\

TRY TRY TRY TRY TRY TRY !!!!!!!!!




balls of fury!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ask him stop with the freaking drama
get with the romance and shake dat thang in front of him lolololololol rofl wtf well try to ask him or his freinds one thing open up your mouth or i will open them for you i am sorry if i am pushy well thats life if he don`t like you ask him another time or get a life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whenever you see him next, say hey and ask how he's doing and stuff like that. Then drop hints saying how you don't have a boyfriend and/or say how you like a certain type of movie and ask does your girlfriend like to watch movies with you? and if he says he doesn't have one, be shocked and like, oh and say how ya'll should go see a movie sometime. or if that fails you could always talk to one of his friends. That always works.


You should ask him out to do something. Nothing serious, just something kind of normal. You could go pick something up with him, or help him with homework. Just get to where it's you two and see how it goes. You can generally tell how he feels then. If he seems to be avoiding you, ask him calmly about it. If he doesn't, try to strike up more interesting conversations. Don't get depressed if it doesn't seem like he's into you, there are always more men out there.

Also, don't fear him thinking you're wierd for liking him. Generally speaking, unless he gets every woman he comes across, he'll most definately be flattered you think he's attractive.

You might also want to try complimenting him, or asking for his opinion on different subjects.

Answer 8

ohhooo

u know wha baby
Just remember my 1 n only tip for ur life. Try to show the guy u like tht ur more smarter n beutiful n stunning than him, and dont ever try to be free with him. He will come after u cuz u will become special.


ITS DEEP. U will understand my tip after a while honey!!!


Good luck!

Answer 9

Whenever you see him next, say hey and ask how he's doing and stuff like that. Then drop hints saying how you don't have a boyfriend and/or say how you like a certain type of movie and ask does your girlfriend like to watch movies with you? and if he says he doesn't have one, be shocked and like, oh and say how ya'll should go see a movie sometime. or if that fails you could always talk to one of his friends. That always works.

Answer 10

Okay....It's simple! Just get like a few of your girlfriends and and some of his guy friends (and of course him) and go to a local pizza place......or just hang out at someones house. Just hang out with friends and try to read him. If that doesn't work I'm always here to help!! LOL!!!