theres this guy in my class and i think hes really cute and ive tried talking to him but he doesnt even notice me...im not the kind of girl guys ever really approach and when i try to approach them,i get no where....i dont know what to do to get him to notice me.like what can i say? how can i get him to talk to me and maybe even hang out? also are there any physical changes can i make?
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2e0lope&s=2
2007-11-05 09:47:02 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must be kidding...
is that really a pic of you on tiny pics ?? btw never seen tinpics b4 and dunno what its about but...
you are very pretty, dont think you need to do anything about the way you look, you look really pretty... so thats cool...
re the whole boys thing... most of em are a waste of time...
but my suggestion is that you apear to be interested in them... but then i think if they are not interested in you, there must be summink wrong wiv them anyway...
i would put down my pint, stop what i was doing and pay attention - if you were trying to get mine, and be very happy to hang out wiv you and see what gives...
dont worry hun... :-))
2007-11-05 20:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will look at your picture but that should not be the problem. Chances are you could be doing everything right and hes attracted to a certain type of girl, that doesnt mean you have to change. If your set on this guy for a number of reasons and dont want to give up, try to be a little hands off, find out what he likes to do, read up on it. See if you cant get his friends and your friends together so you can hang out in a group.
Best of luck, and dont forget just how many people are out there :)
Edit: Your very beautiful.
(Sure you dont think any other guys are cute? ;)
2007-11-05 09:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physical changes? Pfft, girl, from what I can see from that photo, you should stay as you are! You're pretty and have a beautiful smile. Guys should be falling head over heels for you (if they aren't already), y'know.
In terms of getting him to notice you, just start of with the odd hello and a smile when you pass him in the corridor or something. Ask him how he is, what he's been up to recently (people always love talking about themselves, I've noticed)... just stay calm and casual. Try and befriend his friends, too - if he hears good things about you from them, that's a step forward.
Just don't rush into things and bombard him, whatever you do - that's asking for him to ignore and possibly shun you. As I said, stay calm, and just act yourself. Things should progress. Whatever you do, don't pretend to be someone you're not - you may attract the wrong person, or insult the guy you're after unintentionally. Oh, and don't flirt until you're firm friends. Again, that's asking for trouble.
Good luck!
2007-11-05 09:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Strike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK don't make any changes for a guy. because if they do start to notice you because of those changes, they wont be liking you for you, they'll just like the way you look. that can very rarely last long...i mean VERY RARELY. and you'll be destroyed in the end. take it from a guy, they'll just want to screw you, the leave you to clean your self up. no changes just say "hello" one day and that's it. then continue on like this for a while, guaranteed he'll talk to you soon. Guys are simple, it shouldn't take too much. Good luck to you.
OK i just saw your picture, you are very pretty. I'd talk to you (i feel bad for saying that cause i got a girlfriend). maybe he just doesn't really know you. so he hasn't actually seen you. again just say hi one day when you're passing by. That's all that's really needed.
2007-11-05 09:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by just james 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you walked up to this guy and said hi, it is nothing more for you to do, but wait for his response. If he can't even say hi, then he is not worth it. Why would you change for this jerk? Maybe you are trying too hard. Sometimes and no one wants to admit this, we seek out people to be our friends because they are popular and if we were accepted, this would make us popular also. Why be with people that are not interested in you? Once you get to know them, you won't even like them anyway. Besides you sound like too nice of a person to get mixed up with jerks. Find your own identity. Join a school club that have the same type of people with similar interests as yours. Before long your group could be popular. Good luck
2007-11-05 10:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by Nettajay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tyr 2 have a normal covorsation w/ him. get 2 kno him and ask him about stuff he does. i kno how u feel. guys don't rlly notice me either. i am more of a freind w/ guy girl which sux cuz then when i like a guy he just thinks f me as a friend. no u don't need 2 make any changes! u r sooooooo pretty!
2007-11-05 09:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, well deffinetly don't change your physical appearence you'll just end up unhappy (plus your already really pretty) maybe make attempts at getting into the crowd he hangs out in or just talk to him (its going to take more then a few times) trust me, put yourself out there and he'll notice you
2007-11-05 09:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dont change who you are appearence wise for any guy, because you would probably end up attracting the wrong kind of guys, trust me i know you really like this guy but just try to relax... give it sometime try to chat up a convo with him see what his interests are, and go from there, im not saying you should completly go after him, but at least put yourself out there and let him know your alive, sometimes we just need to get a guys attention, to make him notice us...gud luck
2007-11-05 09:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by dismamiizfresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're a cutie so it's one of two things.
1. You intimidate him.
2. He's not into girls.
Keep trying, just don't be pushy or obvious. Good luck!
2007-11-05 09:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by texicangirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't make any changes in your appearance because youll just hate yourself in the end if things dont work out. you cant get him to talk to you, you have to talk to him approch him and say hi just act normal and be yourself. if he ignors you he is doing 1 of 2 things: being a jerk or trying to see how you would respond to it. you have to talk to this guy before you try to hang out with him. make him interested in you and if hes all over you play hard to get see what his reaction it. if he blows you off just forget about him and move on. if after talking to this guy and you like him ask him out because it sound like this guy wont make the first move.
2007-11-05 13:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by Colin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋