Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

How were you captured in the "Free Open Nature" of Love ??

OR, what things made you attracted to your "Partner" /"Soulmate" / "Beloved" ??

(i don't like to say the "Cage" of love) !!!! ;-)

2007-11-05 06:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what type of girls do u like?

2007-11-05 06:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by random.princess 4 in Singles & Dating

How do I tell my parents that I want to move out I have two jobs and Im supporting my self. How can I find a place to live?

2007-11-05 06:08:16 · 25 answers · asked by alejandrea b 1 in Family

So my question is If you do not have nothing to do with anyone for so many years while they are in good health then should they be coming around when your in bad health?
And if someone chose their husband/wife over their own mother should they even come around?
What do you think?

2007-11-05 06:07:52 · 9 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Family

Is this a sign that I am finally over the pain of betrayal and ready to move on? Our marriage may not have been perfect but we were great friends. We could talk about anything. Now it seems that when I call him about our son or he drops by to pick him up he tries to extend our conversations by talking about his family, work, etc. It is sad really. I do not want him to be miserable. Why don't people think of all they can lose before they cheat??

2007-11-05 06:07:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

mostly women would answer and advise me on this matter.Thx to u all.

2007-11-05 06:06:29 · 8 answers · asked by N 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can't figure whether or not to marry this woman..she is really attractive, very smart, rich, sweet, widowed and has a 14 yr. old son. I am overweight, smart, broke, moody and have a 14 yr. old daughter who goes back and forth between my house and her mom's (my ex) every other week. My daughter is spoiled, but that is only because my ex and I want to keep her happy, and sometimes end up competing to get her the most stuff. When my daughter is with me, I like to take her everywhere she wants to go, take her out to dinner, movies, so it leaves my fiance out of the picture. My fiance doesn't get it because if I don't do everything my daughter wants, she gets real huffy and mad and I don't want her to live with her mom full-time. So, I'm mixed up because my fiance says she's tired of being left alone every other week, & my kid doesn't want her around and really doesn't want her son around because I give them attention when they are. How do i keep my daughter number 1 and still get married?

2007-11-05 06:03:54 · 10 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Said he is going out of town to visit mom then he text later and said "Wow! mom sending me to Cairo & Egypt!" Wouldn't you think he would have known ahead of time he is going on the other side of the world for over a wk!? Love sucks!

2007-11-05 05:57:57 · 6 answers · asked by MsItsMe 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u know if they love you or want something else from you... ???

2007-11-05 05:53:15 · 11 answers · asked by brenda f 1 in Singles & Dating

She's my bestest friend and my maid of honor, but she got me this stupid glass punch bowl set from Walmart. Should I tell her to get me something real nice or else I will ask her sister to take her place? I wanted something silver or gold from her, like she's supposed to be my best friend.

2007-11-05 05:53:12 · 70 answers · asked by queen of snarky-yack again 4 in Weddings

3sum on their wedding night?

2007-11-05 05:51:55 · 23 answers · asked by Leesa K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently posted asking for advice on my mums husband , that he wasnt pulling his weight and he was an ar*e basically
anyway the advice i got was good but i was walking up my mums path tonight and i could hear him shouting at her so i walked in the house just at the right moment i think my mum was sitting on the couch and he was standing over her with his hand in the air ready to hit her as he didnt hear me coming in you should have seen the look on his face when i grabbed his wrist so we ended up outside on the front garden fighting the police where phoned and he has been takin away i am just about to go to the police station with my mum for a statement looks like this guys got wat he deserved , i knew i was right all along any way thanks for the advice and please use this to get points for ur comments folks

2007-11-05 05:51:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is dumb!!! DUMB DUMB DUMB!!!! I am so angry right now I could spit nails!!!

She withdrew from the university she is at and is planning to come home next semester!!! She waited so long that it's to late for her to go to a community college!!!

I am disugsted with her!!!
i want her out of my house!!!!

what should I do??!!!!!

2007-11-05 05:43:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My name is Sakura.I think I should change my name because it is a common name.What do you think I should change it to?
I am a girl.

2007-11-05 05:41:56 · 15 answers · asked by Sakura Sohma 2 in Singles & Dating

I became engaged to my girl friend and now need to plan on a wedding. She wants to have all the traditional elements. Especially things like a dress, cake, hundreds of guests, a church, a reception, and pretty much everything else that is the norm. Is there any way to get these things for free or at little cost? I want this to be the happiest day of her life and it is so difficult to tell her we cannot do all the things she wants. Neither of us have a whole lot of money and I have a fairly expensive house payment that keeps me from being able to blow my entire savings and going into debt. Any tips and advice are really needed.

2007-11-05 05:40:58 · 9 answers · asked by Wylie Dun 4 in Weddings

I want to flirt with some guys or girls in emails...what should I do?

2007-11-05 05:34:08 · 14 answers · asked by Am's 2 in Singles & Dating

when your asking someone out
and you want it to be a good long lasting relationship
what do you say when your asking them out

2007-11-05 05:31:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i beleive if you didnt throw it around so easily you would have alot less heartbreaks.

2007-11-05 05:28:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

my bf is going to "hang out" with two other girls that our his "homegirls" when im not going to be there for 2 hours.. should i trust him?? i do.. but i dont trust THEM. what do i do?? i dont like this at all!! i cant talk him out of it too because there gonna come over his house anyway

2007-11-05 05:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Sweeeet 1 in Singles & Dating

shall i leave him . he give more importance to reading newspaper and his job than finding some time for me suggest what i should do ?

2007-11-05 05:21:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When a woman asks a man for his hand in marriage, is there an appropriate engagement present for the man from the woman?

2007-11-05 05:17:13 · 11 answers · asked by talon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy I have liked for a year now,he had a girlfriend when we met but he liked me too,i kept my distance.he is now single and i found out his ex is dating my ex,so i contacted him to tell him and he responded with "good to hear from you,and hopefully ill see you soon,you know where to find me"(meaning the bar where he works)should i go in there and see him? what would you do?am I reading too much into his message?

2007-11-05 05:17:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes or no...you decide for me

2007-11-05 05:12:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say you woke up as a 20 year old male in college, you make good grades and you are a biology major at a reputable college. You are a bit over average height, a hair under 6 feet. your kinda attractive, and keep your body in shape. But your BLACK. Would you freak?, would everything else positive become absolete because your black?. Are you afraid that no matter what you like like or how hard you work, you will never be equal in the eyes of the majority?.Are you conscious of your unearned privelage? As I get older and meet more people, I have realized how much race is such a factor in life. How people treat you, what people think of you etc. People get nervous when I enter a room, people harass me when I am at stores, people think I stole my new car that my brother and me both payed for, people say how I never earned anything in life because it was all " given to you because your black". Whites talk about how black people are lazy, but when I work hard I get treated like a black savage

2007-11-05 05:11:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex just caught up on back child support. She is not working right now, so I am wondering if she has some sort of ulterior motive, but I cannot figure out what that would be. Any suggestions would be helpful.

2007-11-05 05:11:05 · 8 answers · asked by jesse g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sibling and I were separated as children since we were adopted by different parents. We found each online and fell quickly in love with each other. We had so much in common.

However, after being married, we discovered recently that we were in fact siblings.

Has anyone experienced this? How do you cope? Do you divorce or work it out? We have children together. How do you get past this?

2007-11-05 05:09:23 · 24 answers · asked by G's Random Thoughts 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What ended up being the total bill off of how many people? What are the pluses and minuses to doing this?

We are going to have free beer but are thinking about expanding the bar to being open to anything.

2007-11-05 05:05:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me & my bf just broke up last wk. Fri i find out im pregnant. I text my ex to see if he could come by to talk but he said he had plans, i promised it wouldnt take long but he didnt respond back. Later I text again & he called back. I told him the news an he was shocked! i told him to think about it an call me later or come by. An hr later he calls back & asked what im up to but never brings up the situation. We talk a few mins then he lets me go.Then he texts sayin he loved me but for 2 ppl who couldnt get along for a wk for sure didnt need a baby! I text back tellin him i loved him too and that we could make it work an that i didnt believe in abortion. He said he didnt either but sometimes we got to think like adults. I text an told him to be an adult an come talk to me n person instead of textin. He txt back sayin he was sorry an that he wished he could be more responsible. Fri night was the last time i heard from him and today is Monday.

2007-11-05 05:05:15 · 16 answers · asked by socialdeelite1 3 in Singles & Dating

We have an argument at least once a week. Mostly it's for no good reason. I feel like he wants to get mad and needs drama in his life. He got mad at me yesterday and I explained to him that I didn’t actually do anything wrong, and since he couldn’t be mad at me any more, he chose a different approach to have some drama. He began crying. I was like, what’s wrong? He didn’t want to tell me because he beg him, and then he told me that his mom is being mistreated by his dad. Whatever he told me wasn’t a reason to cry over. I knew him for a while, and now I totally can see that he just looks for reasons to get mad or upset over. Could it be because he is craving for my attention? Each time he was sad, his mom would baby him and freak out that something is wrong. She would worry so much and I think that he misses that. He wants me to freak out about it to and baby him, but I don’t want to. His is not a baby but an adult. Am I misinterpreting his behavior? How should I handle his it?

2007-11-05 05:04:44 · 5 answers · asked by butterfly-sweetypie 1 in Family

i'm 21. i hav a bf for year and a half and we have a 3 month old baby together. i love him a whole lot but i think i'm still in love with my ex. i think of him alot. he was my 1st love. i really dont want to get married to my bf because i think that me and my ex will get back together some day. i still have contact with him and he says he still loves me. he never did me wrong and i was stupid for leaving him and now i'm kinda stuck in my situation especially because i hav a daughter now. i love my bf because i know he loves me, he's a wonderful dad and a hard worker and my family loves him but i miss my ex when my bf doesnt show much affection towards me. i tell him how i feel but he will never change. he's just not that type of guy to be all lovy-dovy. my ex was. he always made me feel beautiful and very loved but nobody in my family liked him..they thought he was a good for nothing and not good enough for me so i gave in. what should i do?

2007-11-05 05:04:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating