my bf is going to "hang out" with two other girls that our his "homegirls" when im not going to be there for 2 hours.. should i trust him?? i do.. but i dont trust THEM. what do i do?? i dont like this at all!! i cant talk him out of it too because there gonna come over his house anyway
2007-11-05 05:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Sweeeet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're stressing out too early! Just take a deep breath and go on about you day as if nothing is happening, because nothing is happening. There will be a problem if he actually doe something while you're gone. Don't trip yet. For all you know nothing will happen. Give him the space to show you how much you can trust him. And about those chicks, if he's really into you then they can't get through to him. Just trust, and BREATHE.
2007-11-05 05:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by oneredeemer2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow well listen and listen well it is the hardest thing that you will ever have to do but you have to let nature take ist course and let him do what he is going to do anyway with you liking it or not and second if you do not like it you better let him know that hay you are doing something I do not like and do not approve of if you approve of what he is doing as okay in your point of view then tough luck and just deal with it but if you do not then you put him to think and put him in your shoes how would he like it if it was you hanging out with 2 guys if you do not like if let him know and you have to think about what this relationship is really for you or not . and let him think and ask him to leave or just leave give him time to see if you are more important or not you will see if not well its up to you what happens and if you are then you need to trust him more and next time go easy on him. the answer in in you.
2007-11-05 13:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by liza200471473 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm... You should not be put through.. you should talk to him.. really talk to him.. cause if he is making you feel uncomfortable. then he isnt the right guy for you.. i dont think you should trust him or them.. i just think you should be real strict with those girls... i dont know what else to tell you.. you have every right to have these feelings.. i dont get why he is doing this to you.... does he no know that you dont like this ?
good luck.. thats all i can say.. and i hope yor realtionship can suruve
2007-11-05 13:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you feel uncomfortable about it and if they do go over there will be consequences. If he does love you a lot he will know that your to important to lose over this situation.
2007-11-05 13:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't because they might do things (if you know what i mean). He might be cheating on you. Who knows? But go with your instinct. Hope I could help.
2007-11-05 13:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Dawg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go hangout with your "homeboys." Do your thing. .. don't sit around like a puppy dog waiting for him.
2007-11-05 13:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you trust him then stop worring. Guys can and do say no all the time.
2007-11-05 13:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you feel and if he still decides to hang out with them, then he does not respect your feelings.
2007-11-05 13:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋