Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

If i spelled that right,lol. But i havent dated since 04, and i been to bars, i work with alot of girl and basically no one will shows any interest in me. Im starting to belive im not attractive at all. Im not the type to approach, because i been told to make women work for my attention. Well, i got nothin,lol. Maybe i need a new style or something? Check out my myspace myspace.com/iamdwade So in conclusion, how do i make women notice me?

2007-11-05 03:09:21 · 7 answers · asked by downriverguy66 1 in Singles & Dating

last weekend i kissed a fella i shouldn't have and now i can't stop thinking about him. i've seen him three times since and every opportunity he gets he grabs me and flirts or else rubs my back making sure peoople can't see. both of us are in a relationship for the past few years.
i love my fiance but can't hardly sleep thinking bout this other man.
he has also text me things like "how are u today babe".
he also hinted about bringing me away ect and telling me how wonderful and gorgeous i am.
he also says that he'll neber be the same after what happened
what do ye think is going through his mind

2007-11-05 03:08:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 6months and i found out that he's thought about having sex...and so have i...i feel like i'm ready bc i feel like i love him...but i think i'm still to young..

2007-11-05 02:59:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were out for a meal for my other uncle's birthday and my aunty and uncle arrived. My uncle said to my Dad, jokingly (who's birthday it also was) "You look good for 70 (he's nearly 10 years younger). Then he said to me "You look good for 40 (i'm neatly 10 years younger). That was fine, as he was just joking. But then he went on "You need to put weight on though. If you stand sideways, you'll disappear." I'm the correct weight for my height and said "If the doctor says I'm alright, I'm alright. I'm not going to put weight on to please you." He said "Men like women with meat on them." I said "Not all men do." He said "Well, I wouldn't like to put my arm round you, just like I wouldn't like to put my arm round your aunty" (a different aunty). I said "You can't compare me to her, I weight 8 1/2 stone and she weighs 5 1/2 stone." And this is coming from a guy who is overweight and looks 9 months pregnant! Why couldn't he have just said "Oh you look nice"? Was I right to stand up to him?

2007-11-05 02:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Family

hey guys,i had a very bad day at school today.Ther is this girl,called Julia.she came to this school at the start of the year and i thought she was nice but now she has turned into a total monster!today she kept making fun of me and she told the whole class that I'm anorexic,but I;m NOT!!so I don;t know what that's all about..anyways..In art class today,i told her that i didn't want to fight because it's pathetic and she told me "anorexic b****,fine,i'll still keep fighting!" and..yeah that didn't really make sense,i was trying to make peace!and now she's getting half of the class involved and people keep asking me "are you anorexic" an stuff.Julia keeps spreading very mean rumors about me..i even had a girl from my class come up to me and say "does your door swing one way or both ways?"..i dread going to school tomorrow,what can I do? =(any advice?

2007-11-05 02:57:32 · 7 answers · asked by Baby gurl 2 in Friends

2 tell you that she thinks your 5 month old baby is too fat and that when we go to the doctor the doctor will probally say something. (we went to the doctor and he said my ddaughter was perfect and it is too soon to worry about weight of an infant)
and sometmes she talks to me like i am 10 years old....it drives me crazy!!!! I told her i was not feeling well and she did not need to come over to watch my daughter while i went to school and she replied "are you really that sick..you cant go?"

i felt like i was 10..arghhh is this wrog or normal MIL behavour

2007-11-05 02:54:58 · 7 answers · asked by xoxo2u 3 in Family

When we find out that someone is cheating and lying to us, why do we want that person to be the one who comforts us? When we see them for who they truly are, why do we long to be with them?

2007-11-05 02:54:53 · 13 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

asking..."Does he/she really like me?" If someone likes you and wants to be with you, wouldn't they be giving some clear signs and signals (at least) that they were remotely interested? What's up with that?

2007-11-05 02:54:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what kind of custody would he be awarded?

2007-11-05 02:53:43 · 4 answers · asked by lisa c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I spoke to my husband cuz i,ve always fanced a threesum with my husband and another woman so of cause he was delighted about this and we have arranged one for this weekend coming 10th Nov, although i,m really excited there is a part of me thats thinks is this wrong. We have a great relationship and sex is great to but it,s something that i have always fantansied about. i,m not the jealous type so i know that should not be a problem and its better then going behind each other backs, so should i wait to see if we enjoy it and then say no more or should i put a stop to it now?

2007-11-05 02:53:23 · 50 answers · asked by caz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so ya..a guy game me his email that works at the casino right? And like 2 hrs later when i was at a machine he smiled and came up to me. He started talking to me and such and was like "im so happy todays my friday haha" ..what the hell does that mean?

2007-11-05 02:53:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

make the spouse (who did not take the loan or go to school) pay for 1/2? If anyone knows of where there is any legal information on this it would be helpful

2007-11-05 02:51:58 · 5 answers · asked by badneighborvt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They all say that their wives were horrible, nags, sluts, etc. That is not interesting and it is the same story over and over again that all fallen husbands tell.

I want to know what is it that you think that you did that made him choose YOU? Please try to be honest.

Was it kinky sex that his wife wouldn't have?
Was it listening to his stories over and over again?
Was it giving him a hug every morning?
Was it your cooking?
What?

Thanks.

2007-11-05 02:50:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can u tell if u ex boyfriend stil lov u? giv me a list

2007-11-05 02:50:14 · 6 answers · asked by *Yumi* 1 in Singles & Dating

She is saying things that are untrue about me. Yet she considers me as her friend! When people are not around us she always say something bad about them even if that person is also our friend. I really can't take that kind of attitude. Also, she's so superficial when it comes to making friends.

I tried as much as possible to stay away from her. But she's always the one approaching me, texting me, going to my dorm and stuffs. Need help. Thanks.

2007-11-05 02:50:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-05 02:49:38 · 4 answers · asked by Tearra W 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband kinda upset met his morning about rules with the kid's and all its just a bad day :(

Can someone help me

2007-11-05 02:49:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I asked a friend to be a bridesmaid, and she said yes which was great. Since then though, it's been weird.

She eagerly offered to help with invitations, but when I sent her some of my ideas a few months ago, she never responded. I asked her later if she'd gotten my email, and she just said, "Oh yeah...I got it."

Since then, and for the past few months, she won't return any calls. So, I stopped calling her to keep from being a pest. I send her an email once in a while, and she never responds. It's giving me the feeling that she's avoiding me.

I've asked if she's alright and whether or not I'd done something, and she told me that everything was fine and that she was just busy. It only takes a few seconds to respond to an email or to call someone back, and I don't see how you can be too busy for a friend. I'm wondering now if she'll even show for my wedding.

I want to ask her to drop out. Is that wrong of me?

2007-11-05 02:48:38 · 10 answers · asked by Dawn R 1 in Weddings

I read about people cheating on here so often.
even my own parents broke up due to "lack of love".
EVEN i have loved and lost. and i did love and was honest and still got stabed in the back. and i havnt dated since. (4 years). i realy dont think that real honest love and respect exist any more. im going to spend another christmas alone and im going to get used to it. because i know theres no point falling in love and im sure YOU agree deep down.

2007-11-05 02:48:07 · 28 answers · asked by random mentalist. 3 in Singles & Dating

i hate drama but everywhere i go BAM there it is =[[

2007-11-05 02:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by Drop Dead, Samantha 2 in Friends

your wedding dress......?

2007-11-05 02:45:12 · 19 answers · asked by xoxo2u 3 in Weddings

I just found out that an ex boyfriend of mine, who put me through hell and stole, lied, etc., got out of prison in GA in June of this year. He'd been in since 2004, when I participated in a sting operation with the US Marshalls to put him there (I wasn't kidding when I said he was a bad dude). His last words to me were that he was going to 'get' me - now he's out, and I am scared. He was in the pen in GA, and I live in OK, so there's that - he doesn't know my address or place of work, and I have changed my car since he knew me. The only information he has is my dad's address - I am afraid he would go there.

What can I do to protect myself?

2007-11-05 02:43:13 · 16 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for 10 years. We do no thave kids. I am at the end of my rope with her. All she does is complain about how horrible her job is and that nobody likes her. This is the 4th job, but finally a career, and every where she has gone it has been the same. I am as supporitve as i can be but can no longer take all the complaining. I think she is depressed and wont do anything around the house. She needs to study for tests and ends up watching TV, eating or falling asleep. She accuses me of sneaking around, but i dont. We both work full time and i take classes 2 nights/week. I can see she is not happy, and i know i am not. I dont sleep well anymore and i started smoking again after 6 years after quitting. She keeps in touch with her family from another culture and complains about how my family is. I dont think i can take this much longer. When i tell her how i feel she gets angry with me for expressing myself, so i dont anymor.Any ideas on how 2 make it better

2007-11-05 02:40:58 · 31 answers · asked by Bloodsucker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 years old from north east Scotland. I only just found out i have a brother who is 25, The only things i know about him is he is originally from Buckhaven, his name is Christopher, Surname possibly Murphy, and he is in one of the British Forces. I have already contacted the Forces but because of the DPA (Date Protection Act) They are unable to tell me anything. Does anybody have any ideas ? Thanks.

P.S Jeremy Kyle is a last resort :).

2007-11-05 02:40:04 · 8 answers · asked by Maguire 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Move out of state live our friends and be close to my husband mother, becouse my family live in Europe. We have baby my son 11 month .I was thinking my mother in law be close to my son grove up with same family members. And we move. Here dont have no friends , she no visiting to see her grandson for 5 month , from my house to hers 15minuts, all the time we go visit her but she never come to see grandson. And i get angry stop visiting . NO fiting no nothing. She have son he 23years He get some girl pregnant bolth dont live togeher dont communicat with her. But my mother in law everyday visiting that girl and her grandson .And i in family for 4 years married her older son ,work have help her.
15 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.

2007-11-05 02:39:42 · 5 answers · asked by tina 1 in Family

they dont even know about me yet, im sure they will by then BUT.... my question is ....
what is the best way to handle that situation,
should i bring something- for them, foodwise,if so any suggestions
what is the best way to act, dress, talk
We are in Love and i REALLY need to make a wonderful impression. -they apparently loved her ex so thats what im up against, they of course dont know a lot of details regarding him that i do... SHOULD I TELL THEM.... LOL.. JOKING
anyway, any thoughts, feeling or suggestions on this subject will be greatly appriciated.
thank you
have a good thanksgiving... praying to God that I do as well
,' )

2007-11-05 02:37:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend set me up with my boyfriend and i have never been happier. Yesterday she told him that she likes him and she told him not to tell me. She has a boyfriend and told me that she liked someone else and told me who it was. So she likes her boyfriend, another kid, and my boyfriend. Is this wrong for her to have told him?

2007-11-05 02:36:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i do i feel bad about them. :[[

2007-11-05 02:34:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I are currently in counseling for marital problems. I want to call it quits, my husband wants to work it out. I've been trying to 'work it out' for years and we're not getting anywhere. He has a 17 year old son from a previous marriage who lives with us about 1/2 at our house, 1/2 at his mother's. Why are they, my husband and the counselor, forcing me to endure them longer than I already have? any ideas?

2007-11-05 02:33:10 · 17 answers · asked by Amy V 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 23 she's 34. For two and a half years we have known each other. We have been pretty good friends, spending some time together a lot. I felt attracted to her a lot but was not worried about it or anything. Of lately, we have started sort of flirting together. Problem is, we are both women, and she is my teacher( technically she doesn't teach me, but she is a professor in my uni). what should we do? I don't want to lose her as a friend and yet i don't want to lose her as a lover. are we doomed?

2007-11-05 02:33:09 · 5 answers · asked by YoursTruly 3 in Singles & Dating