is there such a thing as a honest loving relationship any more.?

Question

I read about people cheating on here so often.
even my own parents broke up due to "lack of love".
EVEN i have loved and lost. and i did love and was honest and still got stabed in the back. and i havnt dated since. (4 years). i realy dont think that real honest love and respect exist any more. im going to spend another christmas alone and im going to get used to it. because i know theres no point falling in love and im sure YOU agree deep down.

Answer 1

honest? never heard of it. what's that?

Answer 2

I believe in an honest loving relationship, otherwise what would be the point in being with anybody... There are no guarantees in anything in life but if you don't take the chance then you'll end up alone forever..
We've all been hurt but that does not mean that every relationship is going to be the same. Why are you denying yourself the chance of happiness, there could be somebody out there who will appreciate you for who you are and will treat you the way everybody deserves to be treated.. My suggestion is stop thinking about the past and concentrate on the future.. If you have negative thoughts about relationships then you'll attract negative people.. Your New Years Resolution should be to move on from your horrible experience and get out there and meet somebody!!

Answer 3

I've found it and it's been going great for the last 8 months, but yeh i'm sure we all feel like 'omg, what's around the corner?' and anyone can lose feelings for another or find someone 'better', you've just got to take that chance and I think eventually the right person will fall in to your lap, the one that will last, and you'll both be glad of it. I'm pretty sure this relationship is going to work for me and I've got to keep positive else the negativity will eventually screw everything up anyway, so don't let it and don't worry, it'll happen

Answer 4

I don't think there's ever been a relationship that was 100% honest and 100% loving...it's a kind of give and take situation there. If you're going to love each other 100% you're not going to be completely honest about everything...and if you're going to be 100% honest about everything you're not going to fully love each other. Make sense?

I believe that there are worth relationships out there though. So even though you're a little down because the last one didn't work out, have hope, and hold your head up, because worthy/meaningful relationships that last and are WORTH having, happen when you least expect it.

Answer 5

I think that it exists to a point. I'm in a relationship right now and we trust each other but not fully yet. I've gotten screwed over more times than I can count so I know how you feel. But I truly do believe that its out there somewhere but that it finds you, not you find it. I believe this because before me and my boyfriend got together, I was dating this guy that didn't want to commit at all and it broke my heart, so after a year of this I finally got the balls to walk away from him!!! I swore off men after this. I decided I was going to be single and just worry about me and have fun!!! I met my boyfriend now at the beginning of the summer and never thought of him as anything but just some guy I met at a bar. But then one night, me and some friends went out to a bar that I forgot that he worked at and where me and parents go a lot, he got off at 5 and we were all talking and whatever, my parents were there as well and out of nowhere he puts his arm around me and tells my parents that he wished that I liked him as much as he likes me!!! I had no idea that he liked me. It's just crazy because I was not looking for a boyfriend or even someone to date, I just went out to have some fun and blow off some steam from work and here this guy is, that's liked me for about 2 months and for some reason now he tells me he likes me. It's weird and crazy!!!! But have faith that someone will find you, it does happen!!!! Good luck and stay positive!!! :)

Answer 6

I don't agree. It depends on the man you fall for. I am very much in love with my husband and he respects me very much. He's always honest with me. I know that he's attracted to other women, and I'm happy when he tells me, because he also tells me that even though he's attracted to other women, it's not worth it to cheat. It's not worth it to him to lose the first woman who actually understood him.
You have to find a man whose truly honest and get to know him a while before you're sure. Never assume that it won't work, because unless you give people a chance, you'll never know what's real and what's not. Love is out there, trust me, it just takes a while to be sure.

Answer 7

Yeah.

If you go into a relationship doubting his true intentions and never trusting him, then you doomed him from the start.

And your own parents breaking up because they love the love is not uncommon--but it's more based on the fact that relationships are TOUGH and there's a point when most people don't want to fix it anymore. We are a society of consumers--if it's broken, don't fix it just get a new one.

Answer 8

there is such thing as honest love still you just have to find the right one to fall in love with now or u will get stabbed in the back again so try it all over and put every thing you have in to it and hope & pray it works out this time

Answer 9

An honest relationship? Not 100% no, but sometimes that's a good thing.
A loving relationship? Yes there is such a thing - but you will have to kiss a LOT of frogs until you find your Prince.

Answer 10

I don't agree with u. If u never try u will never meet the right one. Many people are disapointed but there are many people in the world. And first learn how not to treat your partner as the only one until u r sure. But u can never be, can u?

Answer 11

It takes two people, who want the same things in a relationship, to keep things up front and clean. To mutally trust and communicate in a truthful matter in order to maintain a loving relationship. Relationships take hard work to maintain and to keep them going. When two people are willing to work hard and keep things trustworthy and honest, you will have a great relationship.