asking..."Does he/she really like me?" If someone likes you and wants to be with you, wouldn't they be giving some clear signs and signals (at least) that they were remotely interested? What's up with that?
2007-11-05 02:54:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So true. So true.
I always say that the "games" are for people who are trying to make someone who doesn't really have the right interest in them like them - but you don't need the games when the other person is on the same page as you.
Took a long time for me to get it. Now I understand what it's really like to be happy and feel like I can truly be myself with someone. It's so much better knowing I am not wasting my time trying to "figure out" things and am spending more time just being happy with what I have. It' takes some maturity and a lot of messy relationships for some people. But when you find the right person - it really is easy. A lot easier than sitting around wondering about how someone feels and when they are going to call and what you might have said or done to make them act like this or that... I don't miss that.
2007-11-05 03:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because they thrive on the feelings of hope and togetherness. They are together to a certain degree or extent but the one wants more and the other does not know this or is unaware of it happening. For in his part of the woods things happen differently..whilst hers might seem quite straight forward they each have their own ways. Their own worlds and spaces they live in. If one wants to cross over to see the other then permission must be granted..if not then they stay where they are. This is for both parties of course. If she sends signs that she understands then its obvious that it means jack to him..he don't understand what the heck she's sending..brushes past his hairlline and shaves every morning. The reverse could also be taken too..she shaves..and brushes her hiar back..giving her ears a good look at what she sees..and hears with her eyes. Hmm..They say Picasso had a strange sense of the senses??
2007-11-05 11:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well speaking from the standpoint of one of those people, a lot of times there are more mixed signals than clear ones. And when you really like someone, it's hard to ignore those mixed signals; or focus more on the ones that show signs that they don't want you than the signals that show they do.
2007-11-05 11:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by She's all that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people want something they can't have. I think yeah if someone really liked you they would give clear and definate signs unless they werer afraid you did not like them and were afraid of rejection in which case they would hide thier feelings until they got a sign from you.
2007-11-05 11:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Also some people give mixed signals.I've seen women do this many times. It's like they enjoy setting the person up to get shot down.
2007-11-05 11:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Myself 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
clearly communicating the feelings that one has for you, should tell you where the other person is when it comes to your relationship with them. Today, too many people love to play games with others, playing with people's emotions and feelings...
2007-11-05 11:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by No More Abuse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people don't know how to read the signs/signals i guess, they don't know what they are. they prob also post questions like that out of desparation. i don't get it either.
2007-11-05 10:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by million$? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those are wishful-thinking questions. Sometimes they show that the object of affection behaves erratically too.
2007-11-05 10:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋