hey guys,i had a very bad day at school today.Ther is this girl,called Julia.she came to this school at the start of the year and i thought she was nice but now she has turned into a total monster!today she kept making fun of me and she told the whole class that I'm anorexic,but I;m NOT!!so I don;t know what that's all about..anyways..In art class today,i told her that i didn't want to fight because it's pathetic and she told me "anorexic b****,fine,i'll still keep fighting!" and..yeah that didn't really make sense,i was trying to make peace!and now she's getting half of the class involved and people keep asking me "are you anorexic" an stuff.Julia keeps spreading very mean rumors about me..i even had a girl from my class come up to me and say "does your door swing one way or both ways?"..i dread going to school tomorrow,what can I do? =(any advice?
2007-11-05 02:57:32 · 7 answers · asked by Baby gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wow, im really sorry! :[
she calls you anorexic most likely because she is jealous of your figure. dont worry, girls are bitches. they know it, so they act up so that people will respect them, but we dont, & they just keep bitching & bitching, tell her to get over herself, & if she still wants to fight, tell an administrator or your parents. dont worry about what other people think of you, its your body not theirs, you can do whatever you want to it :]
2007-11-05 03:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by babyboo :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hon.
You might want to know that this Julia character is jealous of you for some reason... and maybe she is acting this way because of her jealous feelings. You could take her aside and ask her why she is being mean, when it's easier to try to get along.
But if that doesn't work, I would not argue with her, and do NOT react to anything she says... she is looking for a reaction. If you don't give her one, eventually she will get bored and stop the nonsense.
If things get out of hand, you might want to talk to your school counselor or have a meeting with the principal.
take care of YOU! hugs
2007-11-05 11:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing just stop talking with your so called friend and when other students will see that you are not with her so they will stop talking rubbish about you.Go to school and face it no reason for staying at home the more you will avoid the more serious your problem will become,just ignore everything which is not applicable to you.smile a lot and all the best
2007-11-05 11:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nazneen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man what a biotch. I hated school for thoes reasons. And how ppl will come up and ask u dumb questions that they heard a rumor. WELL you need to seriously let it go. It doesnt bother u and u cld care less. how immature of her to do that. she need to get a life. when ppl come up just say are u kidding me? and tell them to grow up, u dont have time for dumb ppl. Turn it around and make up a rumor about her even! say she stuffs her bra and u saw toilet paper come from her bra lol. or something. or just simply be the older person and ignore it! =)
2007-11-05 17:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy...tell the teacher/administration in private, and tell your parents. If the school does nothing, let your parents go talk to them. If none of this helps...just jack her in the face and start wailing on her...that is the last resort of course.
Good Fortune
2007-11-05 11:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to the girl, ask her why is she been like that with you, sometimes they just do it for fun they want to walk all over you.
You should stop her be real with them, not mean but don't let people talk to you like that. Id she dont stop, tell her stuff to, tell her that shes jelause and will love to have your body.
2007-11-05 11:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by golondris_1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is aweful of her. you don't need to be around her.
just go about your way.
she is not a positive friend.
True friends will not treat you like that.
A FRIEND IS SOMEONE WE TURN TO WHEN OUR SPIRITS NEED A LIFT
A FRIEND IS SOMEONE WE TREASURE FOR OUR FRIENDSHIP IS A GIFT.
A FRIEND IS SOMEONE WHO FILLS OUR LIVES WITH BEAUFY, JOY AND GRACE.
AND MAKES THE WHOLE WORLD WE LIVE IN A BETTER AND HAPPY PLACE.
......\\\///..........Hi My Friend
......(o)(o)....Slivering by to wish you
......(°_°).....A wonderful Day.........…..
........(_).......Hugggggs, ~.......
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Have a great day, hang in there
there are people in this world who care.
Just be you, you have that right.
2007-11-05 11:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by JOYTOMYHEART 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋