Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

I haven't dated in 12 years because I just haven't found a girl that wants to be with me. I catch hell all day everyday from coworkers, friends and what little family I have left. Why does everyone make such a big deal out of it? I tell people it will happen when it happens but people still call me gay or a weirdo. I don't understand why people get so worked up over it. There are people that go a lot longer than me without being with anyone. So what's the problem?

2007-11-05 06:53:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 06:52:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am about to be initiated in Alpha Chi Omega this weekend + am wondering if it's REALLY worth the lifetime commitment or if this is going to be a big letdown. What made your sorority/fraternity stand out to you? What made it different from all the others? Do you regret your decision? If you could, would you join another sorority/fraternity----why/why not? When conflicts have come up, how did you deal with them/work them out?

2007-11-05 06:47:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Like a pregnancy or disease?

2007-11-05 06:44:41 · 13 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

So...I dated my manager.
Eveyone found out..and he ended things.
Should I quit?
I love my job and everyone..but its hard to see him..

on top of that he went back to his ex...

2007-11-05 06:42:01 · 31 answers · asked by SUPERMODEL* 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I went over to another couple's house for the first time. After dinner we decided to play a Monopoly. I had never played the game before, but I went along. Anyways, after about an hour I started winning. The friend's wife got pissed because she was losing (she's a monopoly fanatic) and started an argument with her husband. She ended up storming from the table and up the stairs where she slammed the bedroom door and refused to come out. My husband and I decided to leave immediately, but not without him berating me for ruining the night. I was appalled because I didn't think I did anything wrong and it was just a stupid game. About half an hour later, she called to apologize. My husband agreed with her that it was because I was a "stingy" player that ruined the night. Am I wrong to be pissed at him for not taking my side? (Another friend said that he and his wife stopped hanging out at other friend's because arguments always happened when they play the game.)

2007-11-05 06:38:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I have been seeing this guy for a couple months now. We get along great, but he has recently confessed to me that he is an alcoholic and is trying to get away from drinking, and told me that he wants to change his life around. Which is all fine and dandy, but at the end of the day, he still chooses alcohol over me. I know this is a red flag and that I shouldn't get anymore involved, but I'm already involved and it sucks. He will go days without calling me and then when he does call he apologizes, makes me feel sorry for him, and then tells me that he's in love with me. So of course, I give in and give him another chance, but then it happens again. He's had 3 strikes. I haven't heard from him in 3 days, so I wrote him an email telling him that I didn't want to see him anymore. Was this the right thing to do? Should I try to contact him and see whats going on? I hate it because I really like him, when he's sober. What should I do?

2007-11-05 06:32:27 · 18 answers · asked by Ray Ray 4 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy im interested in at school.. He broke up with his gf really soon and now i HAVE to make a move i HAVE to get him.. He liked me last year and i noticed from all the things he did and now i want him.. He is much more open with all the other girls and talks to them and laughs with them and this year he became so distant and kinda ignores me a little bit but in the same time he still sends signs that he could have something for me.. but HE WONT OPEN UP! how do i get him to open up to me and to like me back?? Please i need advice!! thank u!

2007-11-05 06:31:39 · 6 answers · asked by BrokenArtist 7 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not sure if their is a right or wrong, of course the drinking age is 21 and he is breaking the law....I just worry if he is not at home.

2007-11-05 06:31:21 · 12 answers · asked by ART 1 in Family

I am not a resident and im here on a student visa. need to go back to the uk, where im coming from, if i dont get one within next 4months.
me and my girlfriend love each other and weve been datin for over a year now. we both are 21.
do you think I should leave her and go back
or ask her to marry me so I can stay with her?
its a big thing to ask but she loves me and we both feel that there is a potential future for us.
give me ideas of how I should act!
she knows i need her help but i havent seriously talked to her about it, and im scared to tell her everything then she gets the impression of I want the citizenship more than a marrage which is not true.

2007-11-05 06:30:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys, I have a question. I have an ex (he broke up with me 5 years ago and we haven't spoken in 4 years). I tried a couple times a couple years ago to talk to him (be mature adults) but not only did I get no response, I found out that he was using an internet alias to ask people about me and complain about how horrible I was. Now, I stopped trying but then a couple months ago, I saw him on a daily basis, but I didn't bother talking to him or anything. Turns out, I find out later, that he decided to block my profile on some social sites. I wanna know what is going on? If he doesn't want to talk to me, I understand, but why block me when I didn't try to talk to him? Call me crazy, but if I am doing what he wants (not talk to him and live my life) then he should be fine right? What should I do next time I see him? I know I am going to see him soon...

2007-11-05 06:28:15 · 7 answers · asked by lillee308 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend (23y/o) and I (26 y/o) have been together for about 2 1/2 years, and we've lived together for over a year. For the last week and a half or so he hasn't really had sexual desire for me. We used to love having sex and were intimate often, and I know he was happy with me as a lover. He says he loves me very much, but he nervous about our level of commitment and is starting to panic about being with the same woman forever.

Do all guys go through this phase? Do guys get over this? Is the only way for him to get over it to get back on the field? Please don't just respond with a standard "dump him" response; I'd like to hear stories about other couples who went through this and how it turned out.

2007-11-05 06:28:10 · 20 answers · asked by natasha the sleuth 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-05 06:26:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he died at 36 weeks on halloween,i gave birth to him on the 6th november and upto now have coped really well.i moved to south wales from yorkshire and feel really isolated from family and friends.
the question is,what can i do to cope on what is a "really bad day for me"?...hubby does'nt say much so cant ask him for any support

2007-11-05 06:26:18 · 26 answers · asked by ♥ღ♥yorkshire lass♥ღ♥ 4 in Family

My friend keeps going on about how she feels pathetic still being a virgin at 18.I've been reassuring her that she has nothing to worry about and that the time will come but she won't listen!Recently shes been talking about just doing it with some randomer to get it over with!I think she'd be making a huge mistake!!
I;m 19 and only recently lost mine to the guy I love and it was perfect.This is how I know the inprtance of waiting for the right guy!
I'm so afraid she'll do something stupid that shes going to regret!I don't know what to say or do!
How can I convince her to hold on?

2007-11-05 06:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by Pixie-Flames 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got married on Friday, and I am planning on changing my last name to my husband's last name. I am wondering, do I need to go to the Social Security office first, or the DMV to change my license. I mean if I go to the SS office first will they need my updated name or old name?
I'm confused.

2007-11-05 06:25:42 · 14 answers · asked by twistedangel4023 2 in Marriage & Divorce

... do you think you could have done just a LITTLE BIT better?

JUST a question, curious about your answers...

2007-11-05 06:25:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And when you went to pick up his vehicle from the pound,there was cards on the seat that he had just went to an all NUDE caberet?

And you had never known before that he went to places like that.

Also that place is one of the dirtiest all nude place there is in your city?The dirtiest.

2007-11-05 06:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just want to be happy,i want to do things right .i just left a bad relationship .

2007-11-05 06:23:16 · 15 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-05 06:21:26 · 14 answers · asked by Chrise G 3 in Singles & Dating

Please don't tell me Heaven doesn't allow that because if it doesn't, then Heaven sounds like it's no better than Hell.

I like who I am and I know what I like. I don't want to change against my own will into something I'm not right now. I know what I like and I want to still fulfill all of my fantasties, including all my sexual fantasies that I have right now.

2007-11-05 06:20:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was on his computer and his facebook account was open and i read his inbox, i know is horrible and if it was him doing that to me there would be hell to pay, but i found a note he sent some girl from his hometown saying "i wanna eat that p****y" that word first of all disgust me, and now i have to imagine my boyfriend saying that to some girl via email... what should i do? and how do i confront him without him defending himself using the invasion of privacy thing?

2007-11-05 06:20:14 · 36 answers · asked by mel_2512 5 in Friends

I've been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs and we have two kids together. He has become this angry person who snaps at everything and has also become very insecure since I lost 25 pounds. I feel like maybe it's time that we go our seperate ways, but then I cant stand the thought of him being with someone else and having them around our kids. I don't know what to do. I've tried talking to him but he does not want to listen to anything that I have to say.
Anyone with good advise, please help!!

2007-11-05 06:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by g-girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 14 and i know my question sounds silly because i'm young but i couldn't think of any other way of putting it. Here's the story i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for nearly a month now. The same time my best friend and her boyfriend have been going out. My best friends boyfriend always tells her that he misses her and can't wait to see her and that she's beautiful things like that. My boyfriend never says anything like that to me, is there something wrong with him, maybe he doesn't really like me that much. I'm starting to get really worried now what should i do? Any advice? Anyone ever been in this situation before?? Please help me.

2007-11-05 06:18:08 · 17 answers · asked by i_luvre_pink 1 in Singles & Dating

if yes how many?
and what kind of relation do you have with him?

2007-11-05 06:14:48 · 13 answers · asked by girl24gr 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-05 06:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by vickyhebbe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been dating for almost 2yrs and i was wondering why he still has his exes numbers in his phone? I asked him and he said because they are his friends. The thing is he doesn't call alot of the girls in his phone, only a few (who weren't gf's)and i know who they are. Guys-if you do it too, why? And girls-what would you do? It bothers me a little but I'm not like gonna go delete numbers outta his phone or anything, lol.

2007-11-05 06:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by million$? 3 in Singles & Dating

ok wel my freinds say he does i`m just clueless. i lik these 2 guys and one of them is my neighbor weve been neighbors sins pre k and are now in 8 grade. hes super nice to me and is super shy but smiles and yeah. and the other guy is in some of my classes and we flirt well i flirt and hes sotra a player so i have no idea. do either of these guys like me??? guy 1? guy 2? HELP!!! SO CONFUSED!!! WHAT OTHER WAYS ARE THERE TO TEL IF A GUY LIKS
U??? PLEAZ HELP!!! THE PLAYER OR THE NEIGHBOR???

2007-11-05 06:09:49 · 5 answers · asked by :-) SMILE!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

psycopatic

2007-11-05 06:09:28 · 62 answers · asked by Chrise G 3 in Singles & Dating

He said he moved to another state and he never actually broke up with me. He's still here. He originally moved here to be with me too.

2007-11-05 06:09:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating