My friend keeps going on about how she feels pathetic still being a virgin at 18.I've been reassuring her that she has nothing to worry about and that the time will come but she won't listen!Recently shes been talking about just doing it with some randomer to get it over with!I think she'd be making a huge mistake!!
I;m 19 and only recently lost mine to the guy I love and it was perfect.This is how I know the inprtance of waiting for the right guy!
I'm so afraid she'll do something stupid that shes going to regret!I don't know what to say or do!
How can I convince her to hold on?
2007-11-05 06:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by Pixie-Flames 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her that her virginity is tied to her self-respect and once you give it away you can never get it back. So hold onto it and give it to your husband whom you will spend the rest of your life with. He will hold on to your gift for eternity....
2007-11-05 06:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Older Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know she will regret it for the rest of her life. I was 14 when I lost mine and it was just a raunchy hook up. The guy then went off and slept with 2 different girls after me. Not a day goes by where I don't wish I would have saved it and shared it with someone I loved. It's such a special and sacred part of you that you only get to give away once. And she probably has no idea how many guys out there want to fall in love with someone and be their first.
2007-11-05 14:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lynsey 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that is the dumbest thing she could do.
Males have a thing about being the first and only when it comes to their wife.
2007-11-05 14:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book of venereal diseases with pictures, and show her what can happen. If that doesn't work she's hopeless...
2007-11-05 14:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋