i'm 14 and i know my question sounds silly because i'm young but i couldn't think of any other way of putting it. Here's the story i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for nearly a month now. The same time my best friend and her boyfriend have been going out. My best friends boyfriend always tells her that he misses her and can't wait to see her and that she's beautiful things like that. My boyfriend never says anything like that to me, is there something wrong with him, maybe he doesn't really like me that much. I'm starting to get really worried now what should i do? Any advice? Anyone ever been in this situation before?? Please help me.
2007-11-05 06:18:08 · 17 answers · asked by i_luvre_pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have a boyfriend like that, and he is really closed person, and i talked to him about that, because it bothered me the same way it bothers you, and he said that just because he doesn't show love doesn't mean that he doesn't love me, some people are just not like that
but the question is will you like him if that's who he is,and do u want him to open up to u, or just to give you compliments..
2007-11-05 06:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
I've been in the same situation many of times
He may just be a shy guy
And might not be the type to show his feelings
Do you tell him that you miss him?
If not maybe you should, he may feel more confident in telling you the same back every now and again
With me, my boyfriend was embarrassed to say those type of things to me as he wasn't sure how i'd react
If things still don't get better you could always ask him why he isn't like that with you?
Good luck :)
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2007-11-05 14:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he don't want to talk he ain't gonna talk theres no point in pressuring him he will only get annoyed.
If he wants to open up to you he would have done it by now maybe your not ment to be together young relationships usually are always the same its the way it is, just look at the bigger picture if you like him you should accept him if not you need to realize you wont be with him forever. Just have fun don't try and grow up to quick TRUST ME the grass isn't greener on the other side. Being young is a special thing
2007-11-05 14:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his personality is like that but if so, than he would be making it up some other way like instead of saying that he misses you he would send you flowers,give you a hug or do something cute and if he is not doing that either than last question you need to ask yourself is " Is he shy?" and if he is not shy than he doesn't like you as much so kick him to the curb and don't look back.If you allow him to step on your toes now, you would be the only one to get hurt in the future.Good Luck.
2007-11-05 14:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by SUPERMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best friend has an unusual boyfriend because he does open up to her like that. Not unusual in a bad way.
The only thing I can compare it to is my three younger brothers. When we were growing up, they hardly said anything at all. They acted like they needed to be tough because they thought it was cool.
As far as your boyfriend, maybe you can talk to him and just ask him?
If he still calls you or wants to hang out or whatever, he probably does still like you. If he doesn't want to hang out and he doesn't call you, then maybe it's not working out. I'd talk to him directly so you can know for sure.
2007-11-05 14:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Think! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of life to live young one. They say that guys mature slower than girls emotionally. He probably doesn't care that he's with you. So if i were you, just ask him and tell him how you feel. If it's nothing good, then move on. I'm sure there are plenty of guys that would like to date you. Just make sure you don't tie yourself down too early. You might end up regreting it later on in life.
2007-11-05 14:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your actual question is,"Don't push him, he'll come around." That said,after reading all the rest of what you wrote you don't want him to 'open up' to you and share HIS dreams HIS thoughts and/or HIS desires with you or share anything of emotional value, you want him fawn over you and listen to your crap! My advice is to break up with him now. Right now, before YOU get your 'feelings' hurt 'cause there's nothing wrong with him!
2007-11-05 14:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is young...and sometimes it's hard for younger guys to open up and show their affection. Try talking to him about this and just tell him you want to make sure he is happy with you...and if he isn't then you know and you can move on.
2007-11-05 14:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by kristina43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with him. He's just not verbally demonstrative. Not every family is.
Maybe his parents never say those sorts of things (or at least not in front of the kids), so he never learned.
2007-11-05 14:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is open like that. Some people, men or women, are more reserved and keep their feelings quiet. Look at their actions, not their words.
2007-11-05 14:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by sahel578 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋