And when you went to pick up his vehicle from the pound,there was cards on the seat that he had just went to an all NUDE caberet?
And you had never known before that he went to places like that.
Also that place is one of the dirtiest all nude place there is in your city?The dirtiest.
2007-11-05 06:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I asked my Brother he said it is know as one of the most dirtiest women .You have to bring your own alcoholic beverages.
2007-11-05 06:29:20 · update #1
My D.I.V.O.R.C.E. papers would be filed before I paid his bail and I would make sure that he was taken through the ringer and came out without a penny to his name and I AM A GUY.
The disrespect for you and your life by visiting places of this nature drunk means that you will have to be tested for years for AIDS. He must pay and pay and pay for the rest of his life.
Forgive him this and you may as well resign yourself to a life that never goes anywhere but to the wal-mart and back.
2007-11-05 06:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOHHHH I would be soooooooooooooooo mad!!! The DWI thing alone would make me see red, I mean that is going to cost you a fortune!! Why didn't he call you to pick him up? Is this his first offense? I would be worried more about alchoholism than the nudey bar. But the nude bar would be the icing on the cake! There is not much you really can DO, but I understand your frustration. Sorry not really an answer I know, but I don't know that there is one to this post. Good Luck :-)
2007-11-05 14:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you do not know your husband very well. This is a real eye opener for you.
Is this his first DWI? If he has made one mistake then I would help him through it.
As far as the stripper thing, I would talk to him about it. You are his wife, not his mother. He may not be telling you the truth about things because you are to controlling. Take it out, work on it and you can come to a resolution.
Good Luck and do not be to hard on him.
2007-11-05 14:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly wouldn't bail him out! Other than having his stuff in the yard when he gets home, there's not much you can do. If he wants to go to places like that, you aren't ever going to stop him. Confronting him with it will just result in him being more careful next time. You have to decide if it bothers you enough to divorce him....your only other option is to ignore it for what it is worth: an immature male.....and consider this as just another one of his disgusting habits.
2007-11-05 14:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by transplanted_fireweed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You husband was driving drink and could have killed some innocent person, and YOU are worried that he was at a nude cabaret? Your husband's alcohol problem is a little more serious than his hankering to look at naked broads. You've got some problems on your hands, lady.
2007-11-05 14:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by fnd40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce and hire a private investigator.
Your husband has been hiding a second life. Better find out all it encompassed, especially if you have children. Get some health tests while you're at it.
2007-11-05 14:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then when he comes home (if hes not abusive or have anger probs) talk to him about it an express your frusteration. tell him to get everything out and if he doesnt seem to care then tell him that its over
2007-11-05 14:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hanging out with SKANKS!!! Put his clothes to the curb before you catch something.
2007-11-05 14:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by cooter726 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While his *** was in jail, I'd sell his vehicle.
2007-11-05 14:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, i think you should get yourself to hospital ASAP!!!! (get yourself check out first)
After that, contact a lawyer, and you are good to go :)
2007-11-05 14:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by Kristine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋