Hey guys, I have a question. I have an ex (he broke up with me 5 years ago and we haven't spoken in 4 years). I tried a couple times a couple years ago to talk to him (be mature adults) but not only did I get no response, I found out that he was using an internet alias to ask people about me and complain about how horrible I was. Now, I stopped trying but then a couple months ago, I saw him on a daily basis, but I didn't bother talking to him or anything. Turns out, I find out later, that he decided to block my profile on some social sites. I wanna know what is going on? If he doesn't want to talk to me, I understand, but why block me when I didn't try to talk to him? Call me crazy, but if I am doing what he wants (not talk to him and live my life) then he should be fine right? What should I do next time I see him? I know I am going to see him soon...
2007-11-05 06:28:15 · 7 answers · asked by lillee308 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey guys, I have read a couple answers with the thought that he wants nothing to do with me...I agree that makes sense, and what not and I am fine with it. What I dont get is why go online under a different alias and talk to random people about me, as of a couple days ago. One thing if I did horrible things a month ago, but I haven't done anything. And second, it would be a little ok, if he was trying to gain insight as to why I was nt talking to him or what not, but he gives out my infromation to others- and they contact me....Ah! If he wants me to leave him alone, I will, but should he be bashing me to random people online when I do leave him alone?
2007-11-05 06:41:35 · update #1
Why are you so concerned about what he does, you are not with him anymore? This guy obviously wants nothing to do with you... just leave it alone.
2007-11-05 06:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Freakalicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd unload him asap. If he likes a further woman and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? Real love does not play video games or have wandering eyes, it is dedicated and difficult paintings. You MUST see this as a purple flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your younger, i am guessing, you should not also be due to the fact a SERIOUS dating that's going to purpose you lack of confidence. Have a laugh, do not emerge as overly invested on this, WHAT? you can not flirt? Move on, the writing is at the wall and it spells crisis. Do your self a prefer and reduce the man unfastened, whether it is destined to be, it's going to run it is direction and he's going to be again. But why you might take him again most effective you'll be able to reply.
2016-09-05 11:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off its not you. It is obvious that he is not over you because why would he take the time out to find your profile and block you? I know it sounds crazy but my and my boyfriend went through the same thing but it was vice-versa i blocked him. my advice to you is dont talk to him if you waste your time worring about him you might pass up Mr.Right
2007-11-05 06:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he went as far as blocking you, it is safe to say that he wants nothing to do with you. No need to do anything next time you see him. He wants to be left alone.
2007-11-05 06:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About your additionals... yes!!! thats very bad on his side.. I really recommend you t change your personals such as email adress, telephone number and things like that.. like i said, i went throught that. i had like 30 prenk calls in one day for a whole moth and irritating stuff for like a whole year. I advise you to not really talk to people he is aquainted with. it keeps him from getting a hold of you. Keep ur distance. hes psycho and he "Killing your game". Hes not happy and he doesnt want you to me happy.
2007-11-05 06:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him out of your system - continue ignoring him he seems to have issues a bit immature if all your saying is true
2007-11-05 06:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Y_aurora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue to do what you have been doing ... ignore him!
2007-11-05 06:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋