... do you think you could have done just a LITTLE BIT better?
JUST a question, curious about your answers...
2007-11-05 06:25:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Personally, I feel I landed a great woman with my wife and SHE could've done better! :)
2007-11-05 06:41:44 · update #1
... I think you already know the answer to this ...
2007-11-05 06:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Holly Cookie Starr™♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God has blessed me with my beloved husband and we have had tough hard times. The thing that could have been a little but better was my attitude when all hell broke loose and if I could do anything over or better not to have such sky high expecations of my husband how I was raised and what I married into was tow different things, but I made a vow to make it work I am married 14 years now. Each year gets a tiny bit easier with accepting things but there are some parts I would never want to do over or go through again.
2007-11-05 14:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should I answer this? "no, probably not" I am going to anyway "you have no experience being married". Shut up other voice in my head.
I think that will always be in the back of a person's head. If you could have done better...and "what if I would have waited". You never know what the future is going to bring...for all you know/knew you were not "destined" to marry the person you did. Then someone comes along that you "click" with better...etc. I feel like you have to live with the choices you make.
2007-11-05 14:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Niffer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I am not just saying this because I love my husband so much but when I look around me at other people's husbands, and the problems they have, and what else is out there...I would have to say absolutely not!
While he does have some minor flaws(as does everyone), they can be overlooked and the positive far out shines them anyway. I consider myself very lucky to have landed such a great man for myself and children.
2007-11-05 14:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Early in a relationship there are always questions; however, after years of marriage there is no one out there who knows me like he does - and still loves me. But could I have done better all those years ago? If so, I'm glad I didn't.
2007-11-05 14:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually my bf and I will get married, but I can honestly say that I can't do better. He is honest, very caring, intelligent and has great morals. He treats me like gold and my two boys as well. I couldn't ask for anything more.
2007-11-05 14:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define "better" better looking, more money, smarter, better lover what? ..... yours is a question that can drive a person crazy......all you can say is that if you had married someone else other than your spouse, things would have been different.
2007-11-05 14:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Been married 15 yrs and still unsure how I ever got her. It was she that could have done much better.
2007-11-05 14:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow Mine the same best catch in the world for me but too, she could have don better... I love here soooooooooo much...
2007-11-05 17:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. When the grass looks better on the other side it's time to fertilize your grass.
2007-11-05 14:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope found my soul-mate what are looks if you have no brains or personality. Even though my wife is hot.
2007-11-05 14:31:28 · answer #11 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋