Family & Relationships - 5 November 2007

the next day she sent a text asking of my welfare and to know what i was doing.she also apologised for the what went wrong the previous day.i don't really believe her explanation so i refused to answer her txt but rather asked her to send me 3 txt messages confirming her love for me at 3 different times of the day..........till now she has not yet sent those sms.what should i do?am i doing the right thing?should i resume contacting her as before? i am confused((
don't want to lose her!!!

2007-11-05 04:29:42 · 9 answers · asked by Shady 1 in Singles & Dating

Just a note. I will call a lawyer, I'm just asking to see if anyone has gone through this, or if they know before I call.

If I file for divorce (Rhode Island) and my husband is unemployed, I am part time employed, will the courts still grant me some sort of child support. He quit is job in September, and hasn't found another one yet. Told me last night he wants a divorce.
any comments?

2007-11-05 04:28:53 · 11 answers · asked by wfhlembo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-05 04:24:10 · 10 answers · asked by lala b 1 in Friends

Well my husand and I have being married almost 3yrs and we both have good jobs, we both work for the government. However, his ex wife who has a daughter with doesn't even have H.S diploma, is very hard to reason with her she is too much drama alwasy asking for money. After a while we agreed is best not to talk to her unless is about the child. She calls my husband today telling us that she is getting her GED and will be getting her RN in less than a year we my husband told her that please don't call us unless is about the kid. Why is she calling us when is not about the kid are all baby's mom crazy or what why can she leave us a lone for a change and get a life.

2007-11-05 04:23:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have trouble getting my husband to own up to his financial irresponsibility. My name isn't on the bank account he uses to deposit his weekly check so I am powerless to control it iin anyway, unless he leaves me an atm card. Over the weekend he clains to have lost 30 or so dollars, and seems to have drawn more than $80 out of the account for his "football weekend" (gas, food, drinks) While I spent the entire weekend taking care of our 1 year old alone. I get chastised for taking forty dollars out. He showers first when we both need a shower, and just really prioritises himself over us in weird ways. What can I do to get on a more even playing ground with him? How can I get him to take Putting me on the bank account more seriously?

2007-11-05 04:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by tenpointsgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-05 04:22:57 · 8 answers · asked by . 7 in Singles & Dating

ok please help me out...If guys call a girl everyday for 3 days straight and then out of nowhere he stops calling should the girl call HIM and see what's up or should she forget about him? Thankkkkkkks! :)

2007-11-05 04:21:54 · 22 answers · asked by RoXsTaRuh 1 in Singles & Dating

Me an one of my ex's have been broken up for a few months now and he never really contacts me ever....The strange thing is i had a dream about him and so my at first i felt maybe i should call him just to maybe see how he is doin.. but then i decided not too... So then i spoke to his mother and to my surprise two days after i spoke to his mother he sent me an email asking me how i was doing and he never really ever contacts me at all and i never contact him.... in the email he asked how i was doin in then he told me how he was doin and at the end of the letter he put luv ya and god bless.... And that was weird cause he has never used the words luv in a sentence concerning me since we broke up.. My question is i wanted to know if you thought that maybe he was thinking about and maybe wanted me back? please answer ASAP thanks...

2007-11-05 04:21:18 · 16 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF gave me a bunch of clothes to sell on eBay. I just got a call from a guy who goes to the (small) gym that my BF belongs to, saying last week he had left his jacket there & now I'm selling same 1 on eBay. I've been to that gym w/ my BF & the guy saw my name on guest roster. But I hadn't been there for over a month & I told him to look @ roster for proof. My BF goes almost every day, & was there the day after the guy said he lost his jacket there, & he gave me eBay stuff incl. the jacket, that next day. I asked my BF & he said he got it from a friend 6 mths ago but to give it back to the guy "just in case" it's his. To me that sounds like an admission of guilt - if it's not the guy's jacket, why return it? Now the guy thinks I stole his jacket but it was really my BF & he won't fess up. I want to break up w/ my BF b/c I don't want to be w/ a thief. Yet I don't want to get him in trouble at the gym by saying it was him, not me. What should I do? PS He's got money, y would he steal??

2007-11-05 04:20:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married almost 3 years now. When my wife gets mad, she tries to fight me. She throws things and hits me in the face. The first three times, I just restrained her. The past two times, I hit her back (not with fists ) but with open handed. Last night she busted my nose and threw a radio at me. As a result, my nose was bleeding and my arm has a huge bruise on it. The catch is that she is now almost 5 months pregnant. What do I do? I love her and I want to do whats best for the child but Im not going to sit there and be hit on. I dont believe in hitting a woman so why are women allowed to hit men?

2007-11-05 04:19:37 · 30 answers · asked by Mister Tee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i live w/ my boyfriend and his mom is literally a witch. shes horrible and she always is extremly rude and yells at us. last night boyfriend and mom got in a fight and she is giving us two weeks and kicking us out.. what am i going to do? im a broke college student and nither of us can save our money for nuthin. help!!

2007-11-05 04:18:00 · 16 answers · asked by fashionladyy8 2 in Family

2007-11-05 04:16:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I have this serious crush on this girl we are both 16, we are already friends and I see her a few times a week but I don`t go to school with her.

Last weekend we went to a concert with some friends and all I wanted to do was kiss her, and thats saying something for me.

Whenever she is around me I feel like she is trying to tell me she likes me. Stopping right infront of me and throwing her hair around she often offers me chances to do things with her.

She is always smiling at me and touched my arm in a "friendly" way about a week ago. Sounds obvious right?

But I am not the only guy there is another guy that she plays in a band with, an old BF that moved faraway [they still talk] the point is I can`t be sure if she likes me as much as I like her and I`m scared to death to try to find out. I don`t want to mess up our friendship but is she this friendly with everyone or should I chase her just a little. And let me say this I haven`t ever felt this way before. It`s killing

2007-11-05 04:15:06 · 9 answers · asked by Taylor 3 in Singles & Dating

can get it for "Free" from there wife. And is sex really "Free" when you are married.

2007-11-05 04:14:57 · 24 answers · asked by jake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Together for 5 years, engaged 6 months, then broke up. There is no chance of reconciliation. Although I was the one who made it clear we werent working, the break-up was mutual and he's the one who ultimately approached me about leaving. I have the ring and he hasnt asked for it back or even mentioned it; but I think that's because he assumes I will keep it forever as a momento or something. We have a child together and are still attempting to be friends, so I dont think telling him I sold the ring would help keep us civil - however - I really need the money. And I dont need the ring.

Do you think it would be wrong of me to sell it, and if not, what do you think is the proper time period to wait to do such? And should I tell him straight out? I'm conflicted.

2007-11-05 04:14:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating my bf Kyle for 3 months now and I thought that everything was going great, I mean he's every girls fantasy guy. Sweet, Charming, Sexy, amazing in everyway. But now this girl who I used to be friends with likes him. I mean is stalking him and me. Shes on the yearbook team and ruined his senior quote saying that hes dumping me because hes not getting any and that hes going to her because he loves her and not me. It's an on going thing with her and us. Shes doing anything and everything to be near him. Shes going to all his golf tourtaments and just following us around. She thinks that we're friends with her and that shes going to get him but shes not. When will she stop?

2007-11-05 04:13:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-05 04:11:17 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am normally not the jealous type but recently my boyfriend made a comment about one of our friends saying that she was "hot." It really bothered me and I think that it was because it was a mutual friend and not some girl on the street. I feel disrespected. I am overreacting?

2007-11-05 04:10:24 · 33 answers · asked by Lola 2 in Singles & Dating

In other words, do you expect to see a banquet hall loaded with flowers, decorations and etc? We were planning this elaborate reception, but are cutting back. Now I think I want to cut back even more and he doesnt want to. I really wanted slipcovers for the chairs, put do people really care if we have them or not? I look at it this way: great food, music and drinks should be the main focus right??? I still am going to have the tables decorated, but is all the extra stuff really needed to impress people the first 10 minutes they walk in?

2007-11-05 04:08:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-05 04:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by Shells 1 in Singles & Dating

I hear so many people talk about "if the trust is gone, then there is no love". Problem is love and trust don't don't tie into each other so is the new "love" actually trust? Think about this before you answer because I never hear someone say , "I'm staying with this person because I trust him", they say they love them, that's why they stay and work things out! I know both do play a role in a relationship, but I'm tired of hearing people talk about if there's no trust, theres nothing (which is not true). Society's easy button from staples I guess. Oh, and I am not a victim of this at all...

2007-11-05 04:07:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

anyone interested in emailing their age difference fantasies?

2007-11-05 04:06:03 · 5 answers · asked by bluesbrother74 5 in Singles & Dating

I have two friends, Tom and Susan. They've been best friends for a year and I am a new addition to the group. I met Susan through Tom in August. She's called me her best friend since we met. The guy and I have been friends since April of this year.

In August, Tom and I went out with Susan and her bf and later slept over at her bf's place. Tom and I were attracted to each other and ended up having sex. Susan and her bf kept asking me about whether Tom and I were dating because he'd keep bringing me around. Susan told me that Tom doesn't deserve me and I shouldn't date anyone for a while because I just got out of a 4 year relationship in June.

Tom and I decided to just be friends a month ago. But he'd keep calling me to hang out. For weeks Susan didn't call me. I found out later from Susan that Tom "begged" her not to be friends with me because he and I had sex and it would be awkward.

Susan told me that she liked me and didn't want to share me with her bf or Tom. She's straight.

2007-11-05 04:04:54 · 5 answers · asked by Erato 3 in Friends

would you consider yourself more or less sexually experienced than the "average person"?

2007-11-05 04:03:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a mother of four all of whom i have given up for adoption, and I want to enter the dating scene again but I am afraid that guys will judge me by my past instead of my future. do guys really date women who have had kids.

2007-11-05 04:03:16 · 16 answers · asked by Sheena C 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never had doubts that my husband could be or has been cheating on me, until now. My husband is very nice and romantic and i know he loves me very much. He has never been late from work unless he has to but for this he calls me to ask me if it's ok for him to stay or not. If i say no he just comes home. So the other day he called me to stay, so i said it was fine for him to stay for a few extra hours. So he calls later and he says that he is driving on the street already he just got off the freeway. Twenty minutes pass and he still is not home so i call him and he says "I just got off the freeway", so i thought that was really weird. When he gets home his tie is off and his shirt is untooked, something that was weird because he always comes home looking just like he leaves. Bottom line i notice something that looked like a hickey on this neck i ask him he denies it, i call his job and they say he got off 3 hours early than what he said. What do i believe?

2007-11-05 04:02:26 · 37 answers · asked by Me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does yours?
He does it sometimes but not all the time im like gEEZE U PIGGIE

2007-11-05 04:02:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister just asked me if my husband and I would be okay if she can put us down as her son's legal guardian if anything should happen to her and her husband.
I couldn't give her an answer right away.
What other aspects do I need to consider before coming to an answer? Financially?
Please give me any serious answers I could use.
Thanks in advance.

2007-11-05 03:58:47 · 5 answers · asked by pangfvlx 3 in Family

My teacher acts real weird around me. He...
1. Gives me only 100s
2. Seems to praise me all the time in front of the class
3. Only gives me extentions on work
4. Calls me his special girl
5. gives me massages during tests to help me relax
6. Wants me to stay after school everyday
7. He invites me over to his house on the weekend
8. He always gives my boyfriend failing grades
9. He wants me to ditch my boyfriend and go for an older man
10. he cries every time I bring up graduation

Am I thinking to much into this?

2007-11-05 03:56:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Chris and I have had history since Freshman year, I'm a sophmore and he's a Junior now. He liked me as soon as he laid eyes on me, but I didn't feel the same. Then, during the summer he got a girlfriend named Holly. They were off and on, and he even told me that he'll always love me.

I started to like him. I told him how I felt though I wasn't ready to commit which we both know. I told him by summer I'll be grown and ready. He still calls me often, and talks about Holly all the time and rubs in my face the fact that he's going to move to PA where she lives and go to Penn state starting this summer. When we were supposed to...start a relationship.

Holly is his girlfriend on myspace also though they call each other and visit one and other. She's also a ***** and often taunts me calling me hurtful names. It's hard to move on when he keeps calling, and I'm not sure what I should do.

2007-11-05 03:55:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating